Hello everyone! I've had many wonderful conversations with women contacting me after my last post here, but sadly I still quite haven't found what I'm looking for. So I'm giving it another shot; this time I'm going to write out a much more thorough and detailed post that will hopefully resonate with someone special :)

Allow me to begin. My name is John. I'm 6'1, Hispanic, and single with no kids. I'm looking for a dynamic with a submissive girl who enjoys the idea of being led and cared for by a man. Someone who enjoys being desired and used to satisfy his needs. To be his personal toy, his ultimate stress relief, and his greatest obsession. You crave his touch and his praise, and feel completely fulfilled when your body is put to use by him however he chooses. You feel no hesitation in giving up all control to him; in fact it feels freeing. It feels like you've found your life's purpose to be the object of his affection.

With that said, you are NOT just a doormat. You are his most treasured possession, but also his partner. You are not just a mindless, indecisive shell with no will of your own. You have your own wants and needs, your own opinions, and your own desires. You can call him out on his shit when he's out of line, and you can stand your own and argue your point and express your feelings in a respectful and concise way. You can mutually discuss important matters as equals, without egos being hurt, or the power dynamic threatened. You can be completely vulnerable with him and know that he will truly hear you and understand you, even if it's difficult. He will always be there to hold you and be your rock. It's this strong foundation that allows you to give yourself to him without hesitation. You never have to feel afraid to be under his control. If anything, it's where you feel safest.

This is the dynamic that I'm searching for. I want to cultivate a strong sense of intimacy with a submissive partner who is eager to give herself up to me, and I want to earn that right by worshipping her from head to toe, and spoiling her at every opportunity. Our needs feed off each other. The more I desire you, the more you want to be mine, which makes me desire you more, etc.
If that sounds intense to you, that's exactly the point. I want to create a bond that is built on intense passion and intimacy, which then also feeds into a robust kink life. I want it to be an absolute struggle for me to keep my hands off of you. I want you salivating at just the thought of orally satisfying me. I want us to be crazy about each other, with a very active and consistent sex life. In terms of specific kinks, here are a few of the things that I'm most drawn to, or like to incorporate most:

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• Anything to do with rough sex - choking, slapping, spanking, biting, hair pulling, etc.
• Anal sex, or anal training; using increasingly larger plugs to build up your tolerance for more intense anal play.
• Cum swallowing, creampies, anal creampies - aka just generally being used as my cum dump.
• Breeding/impregnation.
• CNC/Rape play
• Orgasm denial
• Intense oral/face fucking
• Wardrobe control; sometimes denying you from wearing panties with skirts/dresses, or making you go braless, dressing you slightly inappropriately for where we're going, etc. I like being able to show you off.
• Public sex (easy access if I dont allow you to wear panties lol)
• Daddy/little girl dynamics
• Long sessions devoted to pleasuring you orally.
• Lots and lots of dirty talk.

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And I'm sure there's a lot more niche stuff that I'm glossing over, but these are some of my top favorites. Despite all of what's listed above, I'm also quite cuddly and like to do cutesy shit as well lol. I love slow, passionate kissing and nibbling on your neck and ears. I like stroking your hair as you lay on my chest and whispering how much of a good girl you are and how proud I am of you. I like giving you massages and generally having my hands on you in firm but sensual ways. If any or all of this sounds intriguing to you, then I very much want to hear from you, because I think there's potential for us to get along :)
As far as what I'm drawn to in a partner, here's a brief list of what typically stands out to me. Please note that this is by no means a comprehensive list, and whether you check off only one or none of these boxes does not automatically mean I would not be interested. I honestly can't even think of anyone I've ever been involved with who DID satisfy this entire list. This is merely an idealistic compilation of general qualities that I would find attractive, but I'm not using this at all as any strict rubric in my decisions.

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• Somewhere between the ages of 22-28.
• Petite build, and somewhere around 5'6 and below.
• Generally bubbly personality, but somewhat reserved.
• Caucasian or Hispanic.
• Laughs easily, and has a loud and distinctive laugh.
• Loves comedy, and is capable of a dark or twisted sense of humor.
• Non-smoker, and not a hardcore drug user.
• Single and childless (but wants kids one day).
• Generally low-maintenance.
• A bit bratty/pouty at times, but easily won over with food and/or affection lol.
• Easy to talk to, and enjoys having deep conversations even over silly stuff.

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And finally, please be 100% sure you're over your ex before reaching out. I'm here to look for somebody for ME lol. I enjoy having people open up to me, and I've had many wonderful conversations with several women about their specific situations on this subreddit. But ultimately, I don't want to be here to help you work out your issues with your ex so that you can reconnect with them again. I'm not here to be a relationship counselor. I want to find someone who is interested in developing something with me, so if you're here purely to take your mind off of an ex, I'd prefer that you work through that first before contacting me. Besides that though, I'm open to any and all who are interested. Please shoot your shot ladies ;)