hey pals, i'm looking for some new connections! i want to find someone that i have a real connection with - i want to get to know you, become friends (or friends with benefits), and eventually find someone that i really think could be my partner. i want someone i'm excited to talk with every day. if we seem to be getting along well and feel like there's something there, let's meet up!

about me

• i'm 27
• afab enby, sometimes kind of masculine, contemplating going on T at some point, maybe, who actually knows. still present feminine for the time being
• definitely a bit of a nerd. into reading, writing, coding, and generally just learning new things
• i love science fiction, true crime, psychology, and spooky shit
• i work 40 hours a week at a boring office job and i'm also taking classes to learn web development
• i'm pretty busy and may not respond right away, but i do my best to make an effort for those that also put in effort
• i'm an anxious overthinker with ADHD. i can be spacey and disorganized, but i'm learning to be better, and am intent on pushing myself out of my comfort zone
• i'm overweight but working on it
• i'm in louisville, kentucky. generally looking to talk with people in that general area, or within a couple of hours from louisville.

about you

• you identify as a man, it doesn't matter to me if you're cis or trans. i'm open to amab enbies as well
• be around my age or older, i'm not really into people younger than me
• dominant in the bedroom (and perhaps outside of the bedroom for the right person)
• somewhat local
• also a nerd! be passionate about something and tell me about it, i want to know!
• hopefully you'll be talkative and able to take the lead, i'm pretty shy (see: anxious overthinker) so i can struggle with that. be able to hold a conversation, please!
• you've gotta be politically liberal, we just won't get along if you aren't

kinks

• D/s dynamics. i'm definitely on the sub/bottom side, but i can be a little switch-y for the right person.
• general BDSM themes (bondage, some pain, edging/orgasm control/denial, begging, some power exchange)
• toys are my thing, i have a small (ish) collection
• exhibitionism/voyeurism and public play are things i'd like to explore
• some watersports (i like the control/desperation aspects and less the actual pee aspects)
• i'm totally open to exploring new things and generally just want to check things out and learn
• i'm iffy on degradation/humiliation and generally prefer the approach of a softer dom
• not into extreme age play, incest, bestiality, scat, raceplay, cheating, feet