Hello all! As the title says I'm an Ace Dom with a predominant tickling kink looking for a partner! I get into some details below (and don't worry, as you can see there is also a tl;dr section) but thank you regardless for the attention and your time in reading this over. I'm located in Columbus, Ohio and can travel a bit or figure something out as far as meeting someone who isn't -too- terribly far but... well we'll get into it down below. Thanks again!

So what would this entail? (An overview/tl;dr)

I am looking for a tickle buddy and partner with the possibility to grow into exclusivity… so I suppose the general idea is like a Friend with Tickle Benefits. However, I want to point very specifically to the friend part of that phrase! I want to get to know you, to feel comfortable with you, to trust you, and to be myself with you. Any kind of Dom/Sub relationship is built on a heavy foundation of trust and understanding so this shouldn’t be anything new, but I want to spell it out anyway. We can hang out, I’ll cook for us, we’ll play games, and if kink happens it happens! I like taking things slow. Now, this Tl;Dr is getting long so…

Your pleasure is my pleasure

• I will say before I go a lot further that I am Asexual. However, my outlook on sexuality is somewhere between sex-neutral and sex-positive. What does this mean? Well, to put it simply: ** Your pleasure is my pleasure.**

• I want to make you happy. How I will try to achieve that is through my tickling. Here is an example of some of my tickle tools which I will use for said tickling. However, I am definitely not limited to just tickling. If you have other kinks or things you’d like to try, then I’d be happy to explore with you! My limits are: Scat, Watersports, blood play, and pain play. Aside from that however I want to please you, I want to work with you to make it perfect for you because that will make it perfect for me. Sometimes when I mention I’m asexual people think I won’t enjoy the sessions fully. That couldn’t be further from the truth. Again, your pleasure and your joy from our session is my number one goal.

A bit about why I love tickling:

I’ll keep this portion a bit brief, but this is where I want to talk about loving both intense tickles and soft tickles. I’m an equal opportunities tickler, if you will. Trust me, at some point I’d love to get you in those stocks pictured above with a blindfold and arms tied above or behind you. However, I also love the idea of cuddling while watching a movie and slowly starting to tickle you, while we get all cute and realize we missed half the movie. This is because I love the closeness of tickling, physically, mentally, and emotionally. I mentioned it earlier but I love the connection we can share a lot! I also love things like laughter, the expressions tickling like that can bring, the banter/flirting/teasing, the psychological component to tickling sense, and the joy of discovering new tickle spots and methods. All things that can be enjoyed at a gentle tickle level or an intense one! I love all things tickling (more or less.)

A look into what our first session would be:

I enjoy taking things slow. Very slow. I’ll get into things before our first session in the next section but that’s for later. When we first meet I’d love to get a meal or coffee and then see if we’d like to go somewhere for tickling/hanging out. If not, cool! We can take it slow. If we do go to tickle times however we will go at your speed. Want to chill and talk more wherever we go? Cool! Watch a movie or play games? Lovely. And when we do get to tickling we can start slow, gentle, any level of bondage (or none at all), et cetera. Maybe we’ll start full on with stocks. Maybe we’ll just start with your feet in my lap as I gently tickle them, or sitting in my lap as I tease your sides and underarms. We’ll go with the flow!

Aftercare/safety:

Aftercare is -huge- for me. We will have multiple discussions about aftercare before we meet in person at all. I want to know what you need to feel safe, cared for, and comforted after our session and will honor all your needs. I’ll tell you mine as well and we will go from there.

I also am big into always having a safe word. I refuse to do a session without a safe word. I also have habit of having a safe motion (for example, two fingers in the air per hand) or a safety toy (for example: a squeaky toy in your hand) that you can use if you can’t think to use the word but can get the urgency to use them. You will always be able to use the safe word and it will always be honored. I want you to feel comfortable and safe, and that is a big step in that.

Covid worries and safety in general:

So I am double vaccinated and boosted. This is also the section I edit the most because things change -so much-. Even before Covid I insisted we do a video chat, get comfy with each other, and then of course meet in public before anything happens. Non-negotiable. This is for your safety of course but also mine! Safety is big for me and doubly so with Covid. I’m willing to remain masked the entire time, for everything, and willing to postpone things however long as well to help you be comfortable. I understand completely and will work with you however I can.

The food

Well, I promised a food of some kind didn’t I? For aftercare my go tos are usually pretty basic as far as the standards go: hydration, affirmations, cuddles/massage, as well as whatever you personally need. We’d discuss that as well, of course. However I also love cooking and have been experimenting with it more lately! Do you have a favorite dish? Cooked or ordered? We will work to get that for you, if food is an aftercare for you. My latest dish, which I’ll update as time goes on.

Finale

Thanks so much for reading everything! Or at least, you know, the tl;dr, haha. If this all sounds interesting to you and like you’d want to chat feel free to reach out! I would absolutely love to get to know you and see what happens! Take care everyone!

P.S. not close? No problem! New friends are always welcome too, feel free to chat to make a new friend as well. :)