Hi!

I’m Jack, and firstly thank you for having a little read of my advert below. Apologies it’s a little long, but I hope too much information it better than not enough.

I’m 31, a Dom and live in the UK but do travel globally occasionally with work. When the pandemic allows me to of course, which hasn’t been as much as I’d like recently! I’ve been exploring my Dominant side for the past give year. Both online and in person (yes, in the real world too!), and it’s been an exciting ride so far. So, I guess I’m on here looking for that person who’s willing to joining me on the next leg of that journey. Who know, perhaps it’ll be the final leg?

Outside of the online world I’m a very outgoing, charismatic, and naturally assertive character; with a huge love of life and taking maximum enjoyment out of everything I do. I very much live by the mantra ‘You only live once’ and am all about ‘the moment’ and new experiences. I adore wit and intelligence above all else and will for certain fall in love with your mind long before I do your body (please don’t take that the wrong way!). I’m a highly sociable creature, who enjoys a good conversation just as much as a good… Well, you get the idea! I like to challenge and to learn. To disagree and debate amicably. I like to think I have a degree of charm and know how to employ it, but equally I put a lot of value on respect and treating all with dignity, unless we’ve agreed not to!

Outside of kink I enjoy hiking, walking, and reading/writing. Looking to get in scuba diving this year (if travel allows me to get somewhere warm enough) and love most sports, both playing and watching. As suggested above I love to travel and love learning new languages but tend to forget them about two weeks after I’ve visited! My brain simply doesn’t have capacity, I guess! I enjoy a spot of DIY and have the ultimate ambition one day to build my own house (big dreams!)

I came into the wonderful world of ‘kink’ a little unexpectedly, introduced by an ex to whom I’ll always be grateful! Her prompt started a voyage of discovery that didn’t end when unfortunately the relationship did and I’ve discovered that kink and dominance is very much a core part of who I am and what I enjoy. I’d describe myself as a firm but hugely caring Dom, keen to push boundaries and explore uncharted waters while equally taking total care of my sub. I like structure and routine, but equally enjoy the freedom to try new things and learn together. My style is a mix of task based and more general (but to a far lower degree) TPE – But as with all relationships and dynamics this is negotiable and something we’d settle on together over time as trust and our understanding of each other grows.

My interests are many and varied and hugely depend very much on the other half of the dynamic. Some things I enjoy though (and the list is by now means exhaustive):

• Bondage, restraint and rope (although more practice required)

• Impact play (soft to mild but very much submissive dependent)

• Sensation play – Ice, heat, wax… All the best things

• Orgasm Control – Denial, edging, teasing.

• Body writing, body drawing, body everything :D

• Puppy-play. Objectification / mild humiliation

• Semi-public play, risk taking

And lots lots more. It’s all about the explorations and pastures unventured yet.

I’m looking for someone who’s willing to commit and is serious about something longer term. Someone who is keen to explore, who is open and honest (super important with me) and a very strong communicator (also very important). I prefer to communicate through messaging apps (Telegram predominantly) but happy to use Reddit initially. I am very much a visual and audio person, and need that input, but am willing to build up to things as trust and the relationship is established. I’m not concerned about size, shape, background, relationship status (I’m in another relationship for awareness) or experience – It’s all about connection for me and the potential that holds for the future!

That’s it from me really, it’s a long post but hopefully gives you an insight into me. If it’s ignited a flame of interest please get in touch (prefer PM’s to chat requests) and put ‘Butterfly’ as the subject so I know you’ve read the advert and not just the title 😊

Look after yourselves!

Jack