Since I value my time and the time of others, here is a list of potential reasons why you shouldn't bother messaging me. No hate/judgement if that's what you're looking for, but I'm not it. If you make it past that list, introduce yourself! I can already tell we'll get along quite well :D

• I am not someone you can play once with then ghost.
• I adhere to select gender norms at my own discretion.
  • My anatomy is mostly unmodified AMAB and will almost certainly stay that way
  • My voice is relatively deep and strangers gender me as "sir" 90% of the time I speak
  • My hair goes down to my nips.
  • My presentation spans from moderately fem to moderately masc
  • I'd be fine being called Sir, Miss, Master, Mistress, good boy, or good girl during play (bonus points for cute gender-neutral nicknames)
• I am mildly autistic, which happens to make me kinda bad at non-verbal communication and excellent at explicit communication. This also makes me more blunt/honest than most people.
• I cannot play during work hours because of the nature of my job
• I think people's needs are likely too varied to expect one romantic partner to fulfill all of them. Unless by some plot-determined miracle I meet someone whos needs and traits near-perfectly match mine, I do not think it is reasonable to be exclusive partners.
• I have no sexual history, and I might be sex-positive grey-ace despite my kinks

Now that that's out of the way, here's the fun stuff :3

My biggest kinks are bondage, gags, edging / orgasm control, short-term chastity/denial, mild pain, and I'm curious about a bunch of stuff I haven't had a chance to try yet. I was a diligent observer/learner in the local kink community where I went to university, but I do have a little bit of practical experience, including lots of self-tying, a rope practice partner (briefly), a few online dynamics (where I was dominant in some, switched in one, and subbed in a few). If we have any sort of relationship, whether as simple friends or as complex as getting into a dynamic, it will be very important to me to know how the experience is/was for you. I expect us to take up a lot (anywhere from an hour to several hours, per week) of one another's time, and I don't want to have that expectation unless we're both getting something out of it.

If you care what I look like, there's a pinned post on my profile from back when I first started playing around with my gender, and if we chat and get along, I can show you more. I don't expect you to show me anything unless we plan on meeting in person, but I do expect us to explore one another's minds and histories.

Messages and chats are open!