Hi there! I'm a switch looking for another switch but if you aren't, then either a domme or a sub works too since I lean both ways. I have been rp-ing for a while but never really found anyone who clicked so now I'm trying to create a detailed post to hopefully find the one I'm looking for. This is going to be a long post and somewhat convoluted at times but if you believe we'd be a good match, hit me up! While I do not expect you to write something as long as I did, please put some effort into it :)

Most activities I list below are ones I enjoy both as a dom or as a sub! You don't have to be into everything that I list but if there's anything in particular that you like, I'd be happy to discuss more and almost everything that I list is open to negotiation (I'm pretty flexible) and I'm open to any ideas that you might have as well so feel free to share because chances are I’d be into it if it’s not listed as a limit!

Some things about me: I'm 20, over 6 feet tall, skinny, and have short black hair. If I'm playing the dominant role, I like putting a collar and a leash on my sub because it gives me a sense of ownership and I would be open to trying out the same as a sub. I always enjoy casual activities with my partner. If you enjoy being tied up we could just lie on the bed or on the couch while watching a show or a movie while I practice tying you up different ways. I enjoy both a relaxing night in and going out to eat or have fun or just go on a long late-night drive. While I enjoy having rules and a good girl that follows them, I'm not too sadistic for the most part. If, however, you enjoy getting paddled till you're bruised and have a hard time walking or sitting, I'd be happy to oblige, but I'd like to draw the line at blood or anything that causes permanent damage. I'm okay with a sub that's naughty/ a little bratty, but I'd prefer someone who's not too bratty (I am into CNC though).

If something is not listed in my limits, chances are I’m into it so hmu even if you have unusual or specific fantasies because I love to explore!

Non-sexual ideas/rules I'd enjoy doing to you: -Massages. You ask and I'll consider allowing you to touch your Master. Maybe I'll even give you the pleasure of seeing my body so you can please me more. Sometimes I may just demand it. -You will be on a collar that's attached to me (such as my leg or ankle) by a leash. there will be some loose reign but not too much. If I feel that leash tug it's a punishment. -A point system. You drink 3 cups of water a day? You get 3 points (no, there isn't drinking more cups for more points). However, if you miss one of your daily cups you get 4 points taken away. These points can be saved up and used to "buy" rewards or fantasies that are within my ability. -You will answer my questions with "yes/no, __" (depending on the title you decide to call me). If you are asking a question then my title must be used in it. -Wearing a collar at all times (a discreet "collar" will be used outside of play such as a choker, bracelet, or a ring). -I take a shower with the curtain open and you wait outside on your knees, naked (maybe tied or gagged) and with a towel for me to finish. -You write in a journal how every scene/punishment/funishment went and how everything felt. Should include what you, what you didn't and any other comments. I will read it with an open mind and no judgement whatsoever. This will help both of us. -I will snap and point at the floor by my feet, you should be on your knees in front of me. -I take the first bite of anything we eat, you must wait. You make me a plate of food and bring it. -Leg rest for me if I need it. Or just kneeling by me while I sit down and rest your head in my lap. --Once a month tell me a new punishment, funishment and reward you would like.

Bedroom/behind closed doors ideas/rules I'd enjoy doing to you: -After I finish certain amount of times you may cum once. -Flip a coin. There can be a lot that goes with this. Heads you get a reward or tails we do a funishment. Heads you serve me for an hour, tails you serve me for 3 hours ;) That type of stuff. -You get a chastity coupon that you can use at any time to be put in chastity. -Ask permission to cum, ask permission to touch me, ask permission to...well anything we decide. You would be given a certain time outside chastity to make yourself cum while I watch. First day would be 30 seconds, you didn't do it? Well now it stays on for another day. Better luck tomorrow and if I'm feeling generous I may allow you 45 seconds. -Setting a limit of how many orgasms you are along in a week. Only 2? Better decide wisely when to cash them in. -Always thank me after you cum. I don't care if I made you get yourself off, In the end it was still me that allowed it. -Tell me when you're turned on- doesn't mean you get to cum. I just get to tease you about it. -I may gag you until your mouth has a use. -I blindfold you, maybe even tie your hands. Now get me the chastity belt in 30 seconds or it's going on for an hour while I tease you. -Tie up your hands so you can't use them to help. You must then get hard for me in 5 minutes by whatever means necessary, you can bump the fuck out of my leg if you think it will help. If you can't, it's chastity. If you do, I'll ride you for a certain time (with your hands still tied of course). If you don't get hard enough to my standards it's a punishment. (If I'm the sub) -Making you crawl towards me -Marking. Body writing, biting, bruises, hickeys.

Some ideas/rules I'd enjoy doing in public areas: (Though I'm not one for public play, serving outside of kink as a reminder that I'm still in charge even if I don't have a flogger in hand. These would include things such as:) -Carry things I hand to you. -Open the door and make sure I walk through first. This could extend to opening the car door for me. -You drive when we go places. I may want to rub my hands on your leg or tease you. -Holding hands but my hand will be in front -Piggy backing off the other one, but I'll hold my hand out in public and you immediately grab it. Or while we are spending time together. -I order for you. You tell me certain things you'd be interested in but I'll be the one choosing what you'll be eating (I wouldn't make it anything you don't like/allergic to of course).

Limits: -As mentioned before, blood. I love giving bruises, bites and hickeys but I don't want to do any permanent damage to you. -Complete servitude. While I enjoy having my sub as my personal fuck toy to do whatever I want with- you are your own person. You won't be completely dependent on me. I'll encourage your hobbies and support you but I don't want to be in control of your whole life. -Watersports and scat. -Diaper play

Punishments: -Lengthen time of chastity -Edging yourself for an extended period of time and never getting to cum -Kneeing on rice, hard floor or anything uncomfortable. -Holding things for a certain period of time, if dropped time restarts and may be doubled. -Standing for a certain period of time, maybe in a awkward position so you can think on how to please me better next time. -Write out coupons...for me! -Write lines such as "I won't cum unless Master allows me" 100, 200, maybe 300 times? Depends on how bad it was. -Hands tied for the day, that mouth will be getting a workout. -Give the worst 3 punishments. Next time all 3 are put in a bowl and you draw one out to do. -You watch me make myself hard, then you wait until I go soft then immediately make me hard again. This goes on until you're satisfied or I physically can't. In that case it will continue tomorrow. (If I'm a sub) -I can't get hard for a certain amount of time, if I do then I go in chastity. (If I'm a sub. If I'm the dom it would be you getting wet) -Tickling for a certain period of time. If you move at all it continues. -Take a cold shower or sit in cold water for a certain amount of time.

(Funishments and rewards are short because these all depend on you and what you like but I still left some ideas)

Funishments: -Being tied up and left (maybe with a vibrator on?). -Certain amount of days you aren't allowed to cum, or you can try to make me finish that many times. Of you succeed the punishment is avoided, if you don't the days are doubled. -Keep legs spread for a certain amount of time while I touch and tease. If they move or flinch I'll tie them down.

Rewards: -Permission to cum -Hugs, kisses, cuddling and verbal approval -Me hugging you tight while stroking your hair (if I'm a dom) or me sucking on breasts while you hold me (if I'm a sub). This can be very comforting for both people after an intense punishment.

While you'll be my perfect slut, and I'll treat you as such, I'm very caring. I'll hold you to my chest at the end of the day and run my hands over you while dropping small kisses. You will always have aftercare and a shoulder to turn to. Safe words will always be respected and check ins regularly to make sure you're okay. I'll give you a massage and tell you how proud I am of you/how much I appreciate you. Thank you for taking the time to read all of this. I know it's a lot but to have a clear understanding of everything is very important to me.