It's Christmas and I'm looking for a true connection

Sexual satisfaction is implied, but that's not the end all, be all for me. I yearn for something else, someone to share my moments of joy and melancholy. A delicious, submissive girl to complement and complete me. To enjoy exciting, fulfilling, and delicious experiences with.

In the past I've felt an affinity for the role of a Master, but I am not quite looking for a slave. I want you to be your own person and I don't think we should be bound by titles or an arbitrary set of rules devised by other people. Let’s create our own path, together.

Feel free to challenge me if you feel I am in the wrong. Make me reassess things. Bring a different perspective to my life. More importantly, challenge yourself. Rethink everything. Write in a diary. Be mine because you want to; obey because I have earned your trust, adulation, and sincere affection; and devote yourself to me because it makes you fulfilled like nothing else on Earth.

If you feel you could find bliss in my happiness, then yield to me, and let's make magic together. What we build together could be a temporary respite, a leisurely pursuit lasting a few days or weeks. The red strings of fate could also take us somewhere else, a place we can't even imagine. Perhaps you and I are soulmates who only need a spark, borne out of a little push and a classified ad.

Shall we find out?

Me

I love arts and culture; enjoy reading and writing; and like to discuss films, people, and places. I have strong opinions but an open mind. I enjoy talking about existencial subjects but can be light-hearted as well. I believe a healthy relationship is built on trust and balance; It's nice to be with someone you can be serious and have fun with at the same time.

A perfectionist, I am fairly strict and demanding. I can be quite the disciplinarian and work best with a balanced girl or someone looking to develop a better structure in her life. Your words will be of utmost importance and I will hold you to what you say. If you are looking for structure and guidance, I shall provide that in spades.

I like to listen, get to know and understand people. I intend to play an active role in supporting and guiding you so you also become the best version of yourself and at the same time the kind of woman I want by my side: cultured, confident, smart, physically active, sensitive, empathetic, beautiful, sexy, warm, happy and fulfilled.

Beyond BDSM, the softer side of things strongly appeals to me. I would love to build a traditional, loving, highly-sexual, and D/s based relationship with you. I wish to share many things beyond kinks: what we are both reading, the films we'd watch together, the music we could listen to during our calls, the places we may visit someday.

you

I'm looking for a kind, intelligent, and beautiful girl. An empathetic soul who cares about the world and those who live in it. Someone who enjoys taking care of her body, but who favors even more nurturing her mind and soul. Bonus points if you like reading novels and short stories, watching arthouse films, and having discussions about the meaning of life.

Heart and soul matter most, but physical appearance is also important to me. Don’t have a specific ‘type’, but I am attracted to women who are height-weight proportional, perhaps with lovely curves, but nonetheless ideally petite, on the slimmer and fitter side of things. With me being a visual type, pictures and/or video will be expected soon enough. Better yet if they come with your first message.

While I hope for maturity and self-reflection, that does not always come with age. Youthful exuberance can be most appealing, yet the wisdom of experience has a charm of its own. Please note I would like to have children in the next few years. Also, I like to take a moral stand on sensitive issues and would hope you are somewhat engaged, too.

Hopefully we'll share some views. For instance, while I am all for Plan B emergency contraceptives, I am definitely pro-life and a firm opposer of abortion. I would prefer we stood on the same side on this most delicate subject or at least were able to find some common ground. In terms of religion, while my faith is important to me, you being a good person is really all that matters to me.

Us

I particularly value integrity, honesty, kindness, sincerity, loyalty, faithfulness, and obedience. To these core values I would add respect and empathy; those two should be a must before, during, and even after anything that may develop between us. Ideally we would become friends, lovers, and true partners who care deeply for and enjoy each other's company immensely.

Kink-wise, I favor discipline, physically demanding tasks and control, love public humiliation, occasionally indulge in light bondage, enjoy dishing out a good spanking now and then, like to be playful and adventurous and vary things, going from primal to sensuous, raw and aggressive to soft and gentle. I fully intend to push you beyond what you have known.

Given how much I value arts and culture, ideally we would share the aforementioned appreciation for movies, literature, poetry, museums, history, and the like. I would like to travel and indulge in the finer things of life with you, while caring more about experiences than status, luxury, and possessions.

I would also require that you are willing to share, that is to say, accept me being involved with other women while you devote yourself exclusively to me. I understand these circumstances may prove atypical, but trust you'd find our relationship rewarding and that you'd be very happy by my side nevertheless.

Be mine

Find your bliss in my happiness, devote yourself to me, and let's find out if we can make magic together. What we build could be a temporary respite, a leisurely pursuit of a few days or weeks. The red strings of fate could also take us somewhere else, a place we can't even imagine yet. Let's find out.

Odds are we are not close to each other. To note, I don't even live in North America, home to most people who wander around these parts, apparently. Nowadays it's fairly easy to travel, however, and we're probably just a flight away. Regarldess, though long-distance at first, I consider this personal ad and any relationship it may give fruit to as absolutely rooted in real life.

Although our exchanges may take place in virtual realms at first, everything about this is authentic. Rest assured, even from afar, I know how to be creative and physical barriers should pose no obstacle to the many thrills we can enjoy together. Long distance has become more appealing these days and online should work well enough for now.

That being said, depending on the ties and affection that develop between us, it would be preferable if you were open to meeting in the future and even an eventual relocation. I am realistic but remain hopeful. A world of possibilities lies ahead of us, provided we have the courage to seize them. Let's start the life we've dreamed of, together.

Come to me

If you feel you and I are meant to find each other, kindly take that step forward. Tell me about yourself and your everyday life. Add a picture or two and let's get to know each other as if we had met elsewhere. At a friend's party, in a bookstore or a coffeehouse. Perhaps even walking down the street.

I do not mind using regular orange envelopes or this site's (far from great) chat function, although if we hit it off we are likely to head to Discord or Telegram fairly soon. Let's share a cup of hot chocolate or a glass of wine from afar. Pour your heart out or just send me the first few lines this message inspires, add a picture or two, and take that first step towards your – our – new life.

I want you to put your entire existence in my hands.

Note - We should strive to remember the rules on the sticky. No need for drama, harrassment, or abuse. Respect is paramount, in life and in BDSM. If you wonder about someone's my views and preferences, it ca be healthy to talk about them. Aggressive behavior, attacks, and the like are most unwelcome, though.