Hello, I go by DSD or my Reddit name. A short into to my I’m a massive anime and video game nerd, a Japanese enthusiast. This is vanilla me. I have my beautiful wife, I am married we are Poly and have been for two years. I work at a bank have a steady job. Ask me about anime, pc games like LOL or mobile games.

As for kink, the way our poly works is that I’m open and honest with my wife about everything. She provides all the wife and home/vanilla feelings I need. I am 22 years old

I’m looking for a sub, who will adhere to medium strict rules. The sub I’m looking for will earn my trust and respect before a relationship is started, likewise I should earn your as well. I am looking for someone who can take lots of pain, preferably a pain slut. My sub would crave pain and beg for it. Would love to be abused every time we meet. They would idolize me after it’s earned. Put me on a pedestal so to speak. Be open to trying some tougher stuff later on the line. Such as piss play or possibly scat. I want to fulfill some nasty desires. You will need to have a personality, I do not want a lifeless doll. Be willing to learn as you go and improve behaviors based on my guidance. If and when you fail receive punishment that’s agreed upon before any contract is signed. Know your place below me at my feet and feel enthusiastic about being whatever I want you to be.be it slut, anal whore, blowjob cumdumpster, a hole to be used after a day of work, my sweet bottom who takes it like a champ and begs for more pain. I’m looking for a sub/slave that will 100% and will be willing to receive 100% of what I have to give. I want someone I can build a relationship with. Someone who has their own life and problems. Who is stable and not childish but can still laugh and love.

My love is not split 50/50 it’s 200% my wife does not like to know a lot of details but will ask from time to time what we’re doing. Be sure you are okay with me disclosing info to her.

Be comfortable talking about red flags and trauma if any, things that could cause issues during play. Help keep me in line staying within preordained boundaries. As to play safely. Aftercare is very important after scenes and it’s highly encouraged. Aftercare should be agreed-upon before a relationship/contract is started but can be improvised later on down the line. I have been into kink for 7 years and actively prancing for two at first with my wife then other submissives. Or pick up play at the local dungeon. I have toys and experience, I no longer see my wife as a submissive and have swapped over to a more wifey role with much less kink. Hence why I’m looking for a Sub/Slave

What I’m asking for is specific and non negotiable please do not msg if you can not fulfill this role. The dynamic is not 24/7 it will be in person and over text/calls. We do not have to be public and can remain private. Be open to going to the local BDSM scene here in Alabama at The Red Chair. You can PM and ask for pics. (I rock the Viking look on the larger side with broad shoulders and a shorter beard. Blond hair brown eyes. 5,9 height) Very into short girls. Online at first for a time then meeting later when comfortable. Pm for any other questions or comment below.