Just before covid I met a handful of fun playmates on here, and now that folks are back to attending public play parties, let's try this again.

Long story short, I'm recently retired military, bearded and barrel chested, and have well over 10 years experience in the public scenes of two large Colorado and Texas cities with amazing communities. I'm looking for a primary long term masochistic and/or service sub, to eventually become a collared D/s M/s dynamic. I have my shit together, vaxed, DDF, and happy to provide recent results.

During play and scenes, sudden yelps of pain make me giggle, which I hope also makes my bottom giggle in-between breathing through whatever I just hit them with. Outside of intense sensation play and rope hanging from the hard point in my living room (and a long laundry list of other play I love, I'm a Kinky Skills Collector©), my style is very connected and affectionate.

Intelligence is super sexy. Talk STEMie to me. Let your geek freak flag fly. I'm just as comfortable off-roading as I am watching Les Mis in the theatre, or a LOTR or anime weekend marathon, or date night being Settlers of Catan followed by couch coop gaming.

I have wonderful casual play partners these days (you're welcome to talk to them for a reference and get a feel for my style), but what I'm looking for now is the partner to be my primary and share this post army life with. The every day committed D/s dynamic that sets the bar for everything else. I've had questions about this, it means a committed relationship with the potential for marriage and kids, wrapped up in a BDSM framework. Of course new potential casual playmates and kinky friends are always welcome.

Sharing hobbies is very important to me, so ideally you very much enjoy or want to learn outdoors hobbies/activities (not just hiking). I also love encouraging and helping those I love experience and get the most out of the hobbies they love.

You, in a nutshell- Cute, masochistic, service oriented, sweet, personally/professionally capable, nerdy tomboy that is an enthusiastic adventure buddy. Kinky country girls to the front of the line.

If that sounds like something that feels warm and cozy, by all means reach out and introduce yourself. Please reply including a clothed vanilla picture or Fetlife link, so I can have a better idea of who I'm talking to. I'm happy to share the same.

Cheers :)