I have been active in my local community on and off for almost 8 years now. I am looking for a fellow switch, domme or sub women to become regular play partners with regularly at local events or ideally engage in something a little more of the D/s variety.

First thing I am poly with a primary partner, no poly is not an excuse to cheat on a partner under the impression you are monogamous (She is out hunting too). There is no expectation in our dynamic for anyone to meet any of my other poly partners but I would hope you can at least maintain cordial contact with them.

About me personally, I am one of those people who is kind of too nerdy for jocks and too jocky for nerds. I've played ice hockey for a while and still do recreationally (if you can call what I do on skates hockey). I also play tabletop games (I'm pretty system agnostic) and other nerdy board games. I listen to the dumb metal and play overly complicated simulation games with no end game.

Now on to the fun stuff, kinks! My interests are all over the place so I'll boil it down to a top 3 or else this wall of text gets that much longer. Assume if its not on my hard limits list, its on the table. I love experimenting, even/especially if I'm the guinea pig.

My big three kinks when topping are impact, bondage (specifically rope) and sensory play. I really like to truss people up and put pretty marks on them. I want to turn you into an art project and I turn your brain into mush throughout the process.

As far as a sub/bottom goes, I like being objectified. I am a toy for you to play with, I am a hole for you to violate or I am furniture for you to rest on. The top 3 I really like are anal, bondage and impact (again not even close to a comprehensive list).

Hard limits: piss, scat, intentional blood, needles, blackmail, public play and anything not involving consenting adults.

This was really unplanned and probably poorly written but I overthink everything to begin with. I hope this piques someone's interest and if so feel free to PM me, I also am relatively active on Fetlife and if our conversation leads to it.

I'll shut up now, hope to hear from you!