I'm a 32 M dom living in NYC in an ENM relationship with a sexy Asian sub who may want to participate in various ways (see post history).

I'm looking for a long term partner I connect well with to chat, explore submission together, and get each other off whenever we're in the mood. I'm fit, kinky, open minded, and am looking for generally the same.

For me, relationships with submissive partners need to build over time. True submission is an intense exchange of trust that is not immediately accessible, nor would that be safe or healthy. I wouldn't expect that from you automatically, nor would I want that. Things are better when earned. I haven't really formally participated in the BDSM community, nor have I been with highly experienced submissive partners, but I generally find myself with submissive women and I certainly enjoy intuitively dominating them. What I like most in sex is the communication, which is why an online connection like this seems so interesting to me: it's distilled communication. I like intense glimpses into other peoples' brains. I like the powerful exchange of trust and power involved in submission and nothing compares to that headspace. In my normal life I'm an incredibly kind and empathetic person, which I think is why I so enjoy indulging in the opposite sexually.

Outside of sex, I'm a successful entrepreneur working in AI health tech and I'm a budding militant communist very interested in leftist political organizing. As non-arrogantly as possible, I think I'm a uniquely interesting person you'd enjoy getting to know.

If this sounds like a fit for you, let's talk more and discuss specific kinks / limits / boundaries and what you're looking for specifically. This would start online but I'm open to meeting up if you're local and we have chemistry.

Take care fellow hedonists!