I'm a 33 white Dom from Hagerstown, Maryland. I've been involved with BDSM for over a decade, with different sub experiences. I'm preferably looking something long term, but I'm also looking for play partners as we build up that trust that a good D/s relationship entitles. I am open to any relationship status, ENM and poly-friendly, and I'm open age wise. I would prefer someone close to my age, say 25-37, but that's not super important. It feels like it's been so long since I've had a proper relationship with a sub, definitely missing that connection.

Outside of kink, I'm that oddball who's on the edges of a little bit of everything. I'm a big guy, 5'10 450, blonde with blue eyes. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, I'm definitely overweight but working on losing the weight after a long bout with depression and anxiety. BDSM has actually helped me get the confidence to fight those, and I am a staunch advocate for mental health awareness. I'm a tit man, but I've had subs of all body types. I'm a cuddly guy, especially with after care. I've been told by smaller partners that they love being with a big guy to feel safe and that they know they could be owned.

Kink wise, I believe that it's best to find what works with the submissive I'm interacting with. So while I'm a big fan of spankings, orgasm control, and edging, I've gotten really good at working with all kinds of kinks. I've been described as a kinky teddy bear in the best ways possible, I'm always thinking of interesting ways to enhance pleasure. I do tend to range to the "Daddy" side of being a Dom, in that I care about my subs well being and firmly believe in aftercare. But I also have a Sadist streak that can make an appearance when appropriate.

I'm ok with things starting online, but I'm not looking for just an online thing. Localish being hopefully within an hour or so drive, so Baltimore/DC/NoVa/Harrisburg are all good. I like online play, but I'm definitely more of a physical person than just simply talking about things. Sexting is a great starter, but nothing beats the feel of getting my hands on a new sub for the first time, then again and again. It's also that time of year when you can count on a big guy like me to warm you up in as many ways as possible.