I'm a male sub looking for dominant playmates for online or IRL (Belgium) soft D/s games. I live in Belgium (French speaking), 53 years old and still in a decent shape (1m73, 68kg; 5.67 ft, 149 lb).

I'm married and I have a very traditional family life style, so I can make myself available regularly, but not frequently (e.g. only once or twice per month). Note that for me, D/s is not more than an adult game. I will play the submissive as best as I can, but if you look for a "true" slave, I am probably not what you are looking for.

I would prefer someone older than 30 years old. Someone around my age would be perfect. It would also be much more convenient if you are in Europe, but I would not reject anyone purely on age or geographical criterias.

I am into classical D/s games, but I particularly like JOI, teasing and denial, orgasm control, nipple play, clothespins, light CBT,... I like to be guided, instructed and having to answer embarrassing questions. I am very interested in sissy things, although I do not have any toys or outfit. I fantasy on bi-forced scenes, feminization, etc. but this is just it: a fantasy in my head, although I am ready to "play them online".

I am NOT into impact play.

For online games, I like to be instructed to look at certain porn videos and having to comment on them, or having to explain how I position myself towards what I see. You should consider this as a way to exert your control on me -- The control aspect is very important for me, and it works perfectly when using teasing and denial games. Babecock and edging tools, such as fapinstructor are great to establish this type of relationship.

I also like to just have dirty chats, without the full D/s scenarios. You would tell me about your sex life, in details (I don't care if it's true or not) but, in the conversation, you should regularly interject comments on the fact that I would not be able to play a satisfactory role in your adventures -- in a gentle but still condescendent way. I would of course orient the conversation so that you have the opportunity to make those comments.

I can come on cam _briefly_, but will not show my face. If you prefer to keep it "text based", that's fine for me too. Occasionnaly, I have more free time, and could expose myself more fully on cam, if that was your wish. I like real time interractions. So, if you would just send me a list of tasks by email, waiting that I send you pictures the next day, that would not work for me.

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