I'm an experienced lifestyle domme. I currently have a 24/7 TPE dynamic with my primary sub. Dominance is a natural part of who and how I am - that said, I am human, I have hobbies, and I'm very happy to have a chat about most topics.

I'm currently looking for male or (particularly) female subs for some double scenarios with my sub, although I am always on the lookout for friends in the community. If you'd just like a chat, feel free to send me a message!

What I'm looking for:

• Regardless of gender, I'm looking for someone I can get on with and can form a friendship with.
• Experience is preferred, a sense of humour is required.
• Correct spelling and grammar is appreciated.
• Please be aged 20-35ish.
• UK-based - I'm not looking for online play.

I am after power exchange and control more than anything else, so my exact preferences change depending on an individual's 'buttons'. Dominance and submission are mental far more than they are physical, in my opinion.

My limits: anything illegal, scat, age play, any actively animal-like pet play, sissification.

My Kinks

D/s is reactionary, so I don't have a favourite kink / fetish. It depends on the person, the context, my mood and so on. Here's a non-exhaustive list:

• Bondage, (especially shibari) particularly creative applications, like predicaments; gags, restraint in general
• Sensory deprivation and prolonged bondage
• Any form of power exchange, including tasks, restrictions, and rules etc
• Humiliation and degradation (specific to the person)
• Sensory deprivation
• CNC (given the appropriate degree of trust)
• Anal / strap-on / all manner of insertables

Masochism is appreciated, not required, but for those so inclined, I also enjoy:

• All forms of impact play (caning, flogging, paddling, etc)
• Wax and temperature play
• All manner of clamps, pegs, ziplines etc.
• Emotional sadism in all its diverse forms

Male subs / switches

I'd like to explore a forced bi scenario with my sub. My preference for male subs is 23 , but I'm happy to have a conversation if you are 20-23.

Female subs / switches

I would like to find someone suited to doing a double scenario with my sub. I having an assortment of double bondage ideas, predicaments, and that kind of thing.

I am looking to get to know someone to this end, build something of a dynamic and friendship with, rather than merely slot them into an existing fantasy.

I am very much a fan of the idea of a hierarchy, particularly with you above him, so switches are very welcome. If you haven't yet explored your dominant side, I'd be very happy to let you explore it!

(In fact, if you would just like to learn without being submissive yourself, please do get in touch, I'd be happy to explore that idea).

On the basis of feedback from previous experiences, I will say for the sake of clarity: I am after D/s and power exchange, not sex. Penetrative sex, or penetration of any kind, certainly won't feature in the early stages (and need not be involved at all if you're not interested).

Voyeurs

I'd love to find a friend to discuss what I do to my sub and encourage me in writing up my exploits.

Any voyeurs with suggestions, particularly female ones, or who might be interested in some sort of live stream set are also very welcome.

Friends

I'm always on the look out for friends in the community. Anyone who can hold a conversation is really welcome to send me a message, even if it doesn't really relate to anything in this post.

Finally, for the love of all that's green, don't consign your message to the biohazard bin by calling me 'Mistress' (or any other honorific for that matter). I'm a person and so are you, let's have a (reasonably) normal conversation.

Please use chat, messages may not be answered.