Hi, there! I hope you’re well.

I’ve posted here before and had some success but the most recent post left me still searching.

I’m 24, F, live in Ohio and am searching for a dom/LTR. I want this to be more than just D/s, I want it to be an actual relationship. I tend to say “vanilla in public, kinky at home.” With this in mind, I’m looking for someone local. Ohio or a surrounding state. Online to start is fine, but I want to know it will be IRL in the near future. **If you’re willing to travel/relocate, feel free to still reach out. I can’t relocate in the near future.

Outside of kink, I’m a very accomplished, intelligent and educated person. I have an undergraduate degree and am currently working on a Masters degree. I enjoy submitting because it’s a “break” from my everyday life. I love cooking, baking, lifting heavy things, bingeing a good Netflix show and spending time with my family.

As for kink, control is a huge one for me. I specifically love wardrobe control. I enjoy edging, holding orgasms, nipple play, mild pain, rules and tasks. I am not a little, but I enjoy the daddy role. I enjoy having a firm guiding hand that is also going to care for me and encourage me. I have a huge praise kink. I also enjoy goal setting and accountability. These would mainly focus on schoolwork and healthy eating/exercise currently. They would likely change throughout the relationship.

Limits include public, permanent, pet play, bodily fluids, and humiliation/degradation (this one can be discussed).

I have had a couple of online experiences and have only played in person once. Take this to know that you MUST be patient with me, teach me, and allow me to learn and explore.

This isn’t a one time thing. This isn’t just sex for me. I’m looking for long-term, in real life, and a romantic relationship. That also means that in our every day lives, I expect to be treated as your equal. I won’t submit nonstop. I’m not into full submission, 24/7 or TPE. If you don’t want this, I’m not your girl. I am strictly monogamous and expect you to be the same. Tell me your favorite color in your message so I know you read this part.

I’m not like most subs and that doesn’t always jive well. But I am very open to learning, exploring and building something meaningful with the right person.

I prefer chat to messages on here. I like to switch to another platform quickly because Reddit communication sucks. Willing to verify early on, would want you to do the same. Voice call within the first few days, as voice matters to me quite a bit.