Thank you for taking the time to read this. I am writing this ad hoping to find what I’ve been not looking for, for a long time.

For a decade plus I’ve had the dominant daddy persona the one that’s caring, nurturing and loving and needs a beautiful clingy little girl to make feel complete. It’s been there since the beginning and isn’t going anywhere.

In the last few years something else has stirred, the desire to be taken, broken, remade, and loved for it, the need to submit. I didn’t think it was possible to reconcile those to sides of myself till I met a lovely little girl that broke my heart (long story) but what she did teach me was that there was a possibility for both part of me to be loved and accepted.

With that realization unfortunately there’s no going back to the way things were. I’ve posted ads on my main (Dom) account over the years with moderate success in meeting interesting women. I’m hoping the honest nature of this post will appeal to the right one.

Ok enough mushy over analyzing, on to the fun stuff. All in all I’d say my desires switching breakdown is 80%Dom/20%sub. I like leading the relationship but like a girl that wants to take the reigns or is ok with me handing them over when all the stress of life becomes too much.

Dom side- Loving Nurturing Strict Aggressive Potentially Sadistic

My Dom side exists on a spectrum from loving gentle Daddy Dom to strict and cruel Master and everything in between. I enjoy controlling my girl in and out of bet to a certain degree.

Sub side- Shy Nervous Eager to please In need of validation

My sub side is basically the exact opposite of my Dom side. I want all the things I provide. I want to be broken down, shattered and rebuilt to be the good boy that’s desired. Few limits when I truly feel safe. Take a look at the kink list link below for more detail.

General stuff- I’m 28 6’1 225lbs big burly/muscular guy that loves the outdoors, working with my hands, and diy, all when the weather allows. My more homebody hobbies are reading, documentaries, making fancy meals on occasion, history, antique and antique repair.

I’m family oriented and can be a great provider. My own house (currently renovating), car, job etc. I have a lot of care and attention to give and am looking to do so

If this post resonated with you, I’m already happy. Feel free to ask me anything you’d like and drop me a message.

Happy to talk with non locals too if they are interested.

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