Hello, my name is Chris. I'm 35, in Iowa. Some of this post may be a bit dry and possibly cold in how it's presented, but I want to be upfront and clear about what I'm looking for and want to cut down on the number of messages I'll get of women who clearly aren't right for me.

A bit about me: I am white, 6ft, stocky build, dirty blond hair, and blue eyes. I have a degree in a professional field, stable career, my own home, car, etc. I don't smoke, do drugs, have tattoos, or kids. I extremely rarely drink and when I do, it's a small amount. I have a whole range of interests that constantly shifts. From video games and anime to working on cars, home improvement projects, and programming. I'm very loving and protective, but just as much I do insist on taking the lead in a relationship and handle the big decisions typically. There's a lot more to share about me, but that's a good basis.

What I'm looking for: I am looking for a serious relationship. I have no interest in just dating someone or having a fling. I want to start a big family, so a woman that's happy being pregnant regularly is a must, and will want my wife to be home. So being a housewife/SAHM is a must too. That said, there's a lot of wiggle room in how that works. Whether it's a general D/s relationship, moving into a TPE relationship, domestic servant, or something of a different flavor like DDlg, I'm perfectly happy with it. All of them have the same power shift dynamic you expect in a traditional relationship anyway, but I'm pretty open on how exactly that plays out.

What you need to be: I am looking for a white woman who is under 28 years old. No smoking, drugs, tattoos, or kids. Family oriented. Very loving and affectionate, a bonus if you have an eager to please nature. US only! Like stated above, you must want a family as well. As much as I want a very submissive woman, I have no interest in someone who wants to be abused, "shared," or have an otherwise unhealthy relationship.

I haven't really touched on my specific kinks, mainly because I'm into general BDSM (spanking, hair pulling, choking, bondage, humiliation, etc) that most anyone would enjoy. But also because sometimes these things are very appealing for a while, then not as much for a while again. That said, I feel the general power shift is a specific thing that will be constantly wanted. Along with that, I like to do things like set a schedule, decide what you'll wear, etc. I thoroughly enjoy taking control and letting my girl relax, not having to worry about anything.

In any case, send me a message if you're the girl I'm looking for and this all sounds appealing to you. And so I know you're real, let me know what your favorite color is!