Just before covid I met a handful of fun playmates on here, and now that folks are back to attending public play parties, let's try this again.

If you've come to read more, probably the easiest way to start off and give a good idea of what I'm all about is to point you to my fet pictures: https://fetlife.com/users/718066/pictures

Long story short, I'm recently retired military, bearded and barrel chested, have well over 10 years experience in the public scenes of two large Colorado and Texas cities with amazing communities, and I'm looking for a long term masochistic and/or service sub. Vaxed, DDF, happy to provide recent results.

During play and scenes, sudden yelps of pain make me giggle, which I hope also makes my bottom giggle in-between breathing through whatever I just hit them with. Outside of intense sensation play (and a laundry list of other play I love), my style is very connected and affectionate. Physical and verbal positive reinforcement of well negotiated rules and expectations.

Intelligence is super sexy. Talk STEMie to me. Let your geek freak flag fly. I'm just as comfortable off-roading as I am watching Les Mis in the theatre, or a LOTR weekend marathon, or date night being Settlers of Catan followed by couch coop gaming.

I have wonderful casual play partners these days, what I'm looking for now is the partner to be my primary and share this post army life with. The every day dynamic that sets the bar for other extracurricular play. Of course new potential playmates and kinky friends are always welcome.

Sharing hobbies is very important to me, so ideally you very much enjoy or want to learn outdoors hobbies/activities (not just hiking), eg. I volunteer year around with a non-profit that takes mil/vets on guided fishing trips, and would love my primary to be there enjoying it with me. Of course, that also applies to me. I love encouraging and helping those I love experience and get the most out of the hobbies they love.

You, in a nutshell- Cute, masochistic, service oriented, sweet, personally/professionally capable, nerdy tomboy that is an enthusiastic adventure buddy.

If that sounds like something that feels warm and cozy, by all means reach out and introduce yourself. Fet links are great, so I can have a better idea of who I'm talking to.

Cheers :)