And here I thought the title was the hard part!

Hey. Hopefully this post finds you doing as well as can be, given all the craziness and turmoil happening all over the world right now. It can be a tough planet to live on. Luckily, we have a place like this where we can reach out to other like minded people and hope to make a meaningful connection to help us get through the grind of the everyday struggles that life throws at us. And that's what has me here - the possibility of making that connection. A bond. A partnership. A ownership.

What does that look like, you may ask. Well, my title lays it out pretty well. I want to give you the guidance that you have been missing or needing in your life. The support that comes with it. The mental help to overcome the day to day trials you face. To be that person you can lean on in those moments when you feel like just giving in. I want to push you onwards and upwards. I want to see you succeed and prosper, and have you hitting the goals you want to achieve. With that comes the patience to make that happen. This type of relationship doesn't happen overnight, or by sheer force of wills. Everything worth doing is worth doing right, and that takes time and understanding. Those are aspects I have in abundance, and would happily share them with the right person. To help you get through those times where frustration take hold, that you feel rushed, to slow things down and show that together we can overcome those moments. And the reward for this is the pleasure that you will feel from giving into those desires, by being able to be your true and best version of you, and the mental freedom that comes with that. And the pleasure that I love to give out, as a reward, or just for my own satisfaction. I'm not into cruelty, and believe pain should be used for only pleasure. I am in no way sadistic, so there is no fear of being forced to take anything remotely taboo. And ultimately, you will get the praise you deserve for being, well, you'll have to find that out for yourself......

About me. I'm an Australian male, with pics of myself to verify the male part in my history. I definitely have a Dad bod, and mind to go with at times, but I physically fit and very active and agile. Happy to share my face with you from early on if we click and you're comfortable to do so. A mild mannered manager by day, helping make the world a better or worse place one retail sale at a time. Stable with the usual share of skeletons in my closet, like we all do on here. I enjoying sports, especially American sports as well as Australian, huge music fan, reading - if you call comics reading - and time watching addictive TV shows. When it comes to kinks, I have plenty to share. Bondage, wardrobe/clothing control, orgasm control, teasing and edging would be the main ones, as well as daily control and rule setting, to help you achieve your ideal work/life balance as well as enjoying the sexual aspects. There are more and would be happy to share more in details if we click.

Who am I looking for then? Well, you, honestly, if you have made it this far. You're a woman who is somewhere between 24 and 40, who is active and somewhat healthy or needs the help offered to become that person, that you are submissive but not a complete walk over, and that you are generally interested in both the sexual and non sexual aspects that a bdsm relationship can offer. Online works great, but if I found an Australian that would be a bonus.

I hope to hear from you soon.