I'm in a committed and closed polyamorous triad relationship of 7 years with my wife and husband. We've always treated our relationship like a marriage but me and my girl are legally married as of 3 months ago so I could have legal rights to our son and of course because we're in love! But I like to include my man/husband because that's how we view him. If only poly marriage was legal....
My bf is TPE 24/7 Master. He's been in the lifestyle for about 15 years or so. My gf and I are considered vanilla. SO! Ideally we're looking for a fourth partner who's not vanilla! Who can have a M/s dynamic with him, as well as being bf and gf. To be clear - we're ALL looking for gf. We all date each other. We're a (growing) family and we're looking for something serious, a LTR. We've been lied to A LOT through out the years. We've been through a lot and eventually that takes a toll on someone but..we're not giving up! I'd love to find that missing piece of the puzzle -cheesy and corny but so true! Being a Master is part of who he is and not having that (huge) part of him fulfilled is heart breaking.
He is a sadist! He is strict but at the same time very caring. It's a pretty good balance. He's a big practitioner of the modern side of bdsm with some gorean traits. He's very direct and wholeheartedly believes in open communication!!! Trust is a big factor in his life as well as constant communication. Yes he wants a slave, but he doesn't view his slave as just a slave. As a TPE 24/7 Master it's a relationship and he tries to strike an equal balance between the two. Respect, honor, worship are important but that doesn't mean you two (or maybe all of us) go on a date and he can't open a door for you every now and then. He's also a hopeless romantic and likes to express his care and affection.
Limits: He's a sexual deviant. He's into anything and everything that doesn't involve age play (DD qualities he can understand) or anything to do with a man which also includes pegging. Scat and abuse is also a no go.
So if any of this sparks any interest, please send me a message! I'm an open book! We can discuss further details.
Disclaimer - It's sad that I have to add this on but, my bf did not send me here. Nobody did! I just took it upon myself and actually try and help find our future partner! :)
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