I've always struggled to label my favorite fetish. So I'm just going to babble and hope that this speaks to someone and that you share my desires too. You may want to grab a cup of tea as it'll take a few minutes. And let me preface this by saying that I'm looking for an LTR. As well as stating that I'm currently in an open relationship (she's actually encouraged me to post). And while I am not wholly sure what the ideal nature of things would be: triad, sister wives-esque, something altogether different, I am willing to take things as they come and work hard to make things work. In fact I would move mountains for this, so distance, personal situations, or anything else are just a hurdle to overcome on the path.

I've loved the female form as long as I can remember. There's something fantastic about every woman, and I can usually be caught admiring someone everywhere I go. Nothing else has come close to captivating my attention or imagination like it. I fall in love a dozen times a day, imagining late nights by the fireplace together, dancing on the beach, or just sitting together on a swing on the deck after a long hard week.

I want to primp and preen. To pamper and polish. I want to brush your hair each morning, and massage and moisturize your sweet skin each night. Pick out your outfits and dress you. There's little as enticing as clasping shut your bra, zipping up your dress, or sliding nylons onto your legs. I crave picking your make-up and hair style each morning, planning to eventually learn to do both myself. I even want to do the less exciting work like waxing and nail care.

I want to shape you. Changing your delicate curves one at a time with all the tools at our disposal. Let's exercise together, explore corsetry and tightlacing, delve into the depths of the world of plastic surgery.

I want to adore and create on your body. You'll be my living, breathing piece of art. Forever changing and exploring. Chronicling our work in you through photo and video. Sharing you with the world.

And there's more to me of course, as there's a lot more to you than your physical being. I love the ocean, the mountains, and long adventures in the car. We can spend weeks traveling around and seeing state parks, tourist traps, and the big cities. And once we've run out of domestic locales we'll go abroad. I see you in cozy cashmere sweaters in snowy cabins, in form-fitting dresses on hot nights, in adorable flowing skirts picking pumpkins in the autumn, and in nearly non-existent swimwear all summer by the pool and on the lake.

I am a tinkerer at heart. A reading each other dark stories while sitting by the window as it rains lover. A picnic planner and a certified make-out artist. Everyone close to me says I'm the best gift giver. I'm exceedingly patient with things that matter and adore teaching things, yet at the same time the worst at waiting in lines or sitting at lights. I dabble in a lot of hobbies but rarely get good at any of them.

Similarly I've a wide knowledge base but it's largely shallow, though some things I know a ton about. I was that kid in school who slept through class and still got 100s on the exams. Read at college level by fourth grade and was forever bored. Everyone said I could do anything with my life, but it was always hard to find something that interested me enough. Finally settled on software engineering and now don't even use that outside of hobby stuff.

I'm the father of one cool little gal, but she lives in another state. I've also been referred to as the Poultry King for my turkey roasting finesse.

I'm posting at first here in BDSM in part because I suppose it's a power exchange situation. Giving up your physical appearance to me. But also because I'm interested in an absolute boatload of fetishes and fun things and lifestyles and want someone interested in exploring and dabbling. I've got a very healthy sex drive (especially in the summer). I'm also partial to uh, sluttier ladies. I'm not remotely sexually jealous (but care very much about affection and cuddling), and love to see my lady pleased almost as much as I like doing it myself. And I LOVE showing her off.

I am just as intrigued by coming to know you and your desires and needs. I need a canvas, a love, a muse. And maybe you need something I can offer and we can complete one another.