Hopefully the title expresses the basics: I'm searching for a woman who is submissive as a core trait in her nature. I'm not referring to being shy, or even necessarily being a people pleaser, but someone who has a natural urge to be controlled in the all the right ways, a desire to surrender to someone they respect and trust, and a sense of purpose in serving and pleasing someone who you've given power over to.

My primary interest is in the person, not specific kinks. I'm looking for someone intelligent and mature, capable of friendship, romance, intimacy, and intertwined through all that, a foundation of submission and dominance. Specifics of how such an exchange of power will play out is, to me, the beautiful mystery of such a dynamic.

I'm not seeking a bedroom-only dynamic, or anything shallow and half-hearted. You will be someone I can talk openly with in one moment and be firmly dominant in the next, and both be entirely real.

It would be preferable to find someone willing to listen, learn and enjoy the process of developing trust and discovering how to submit to me and respond to my dominance. I enjoy the mental aspects as much as anything else.

Any location is welcome, I've found timezones to not be too much of an issue and if things went well, I'm very open to travel eventually. Having said all that, there is a preference for Australians and particularly those in Victoria. But don't let that dissuade you from saying hi!

A Little About Me: I like to read, write, research for my own enjoyment, camp, tinker with things, and work. I'm a strong introvert but have no issues "reading" people or communicating. I like leather armchairs, heavy wooden desks and old books (in case a sort of aesthetic helps you imagine people). I've always had a tendency to want to control, protect, and dominate, though never by brute force. I'm self employed and do contract work in academics and business consultancy.

What I'm into: (Feel free to ask about any of these to hear more) TPE, 24/7, domestic servitude, slave-master dynamics, humiliation, misogyny, ownership, breeding, mental domination, rough and primal domination, micro management (selecting your clothes and schedule), wholistic domination, task mastering, discipline, and causing some pain. I very much enjoy setting rules, controlling your habits and schedule (with acceptable levels of autonomy) and influencing your lifestyle in small ways that suit and please me.

Oh, and though it is most definitely not important, you get extra points if you're a dancer.... yep.

Hopefully none of that dissuades you.

Where does the rabbit hole lead?... I very much enjoy the process of discovering what dynamics will develop together, and even a submissive woman discover her kinky side that she's never explored. Long term I hope to find a deep and personal connection emotionally, mentally, sexually, and all built around our kink dynamics.

I don't bite and welcome any questions or inquiries for similar dynamics.

I look forward to hearing from you.