Hello kinksters :),

I'm a 29 year-old bondage submissive living in Western NC, in the region between Asheville, Charlotte, and Hickory. Lately, I've been searching for a bondage top with a matching enthusiasm for bondage and a desire to restrain a male-bodied submissive with rope, tape, or whatever your bondage implement of choice may be --- I've tried them all and immensely enjoyed each.

I'm low-drama in the sense that I'm in it almost exclusively for the bondage: many people in the bdsm scene see bondage as a way to spice up other types of scenes, but for me, bondage is by far the most appealing part of bdsm. If I find a bondage partner, I won't be especially interested in nagging you for other types of play or sexual contact; for me, bondage is worth the price of admission.

My ideal here would be a regular bondage partner --- maybe a rigger who is interested in practicing different shibari ties or someone who enjoys tie-up games. I'm open to switching to an extent, but I lean far more bottom/submissive than top/dominant.

The non-kinky me:

• I'm 5'10" with dark hair and dark eyes. I've managed to achieve a toned and muscular build from regular weightlifting (I look strong and athletic, though I don't exactly look like a powerlifter or a bodybuilder.)
• I'm employed, doing well financially, and currently halfway through a Master's degree.
• I have an interest in books and media related to sci-fi themes, and I'm an occasional gamer.

I'm currently not in a position to host, but I'd be willing to meet in public for vetting purposes (I am fully vaccinated, by the way). There are several Rope Bites and other bondage-focused events in this region; that might be a safe way for us to meet in a relatively low-stakes way. I'm willing to negotiate with most aspects of meeting up for a promising play opportunity, especially with partners who are articulate and conscientious.

I'm most interested in playing with people relatively close to my age (say, 20 --- 45), though those aren't necessarily hard limits. I'm also open to riggers of any skill level; I'm happy to be your rope test dummy as long as you seem responsible and have good judgement.

If anything I've said here interests you, please feel free to reach out! Happy hunting ;)