This is a repost, but I think it really covers a lot of different info. Hi everyone. I find myself still looking for someone to spend my time with. I'll admit the search for the little that I can really connect with is hard. I'm still optimistic though and I'm still eager to meet new people to see if we are a match. I hope to hear from anybody that thinks we might be a good match. If you read my post and decide you want to reach out please say more than "hi". People who put effort into their first message will get effort back. I promise!

What I'm looking for is really pretty simple, but very elusive. I want to love and be loved. I want to share my interests and knowledge with someone. Spending my time with someone I care about doing the things that we enjoy.

So let's talk about SFW interests first.

So pretty recently I started a weight loss journey. I'm not extremely heavy, but my weight got to a point where I wasnt happy anymore. So as of right now I'm down 5 pounds this week and I'm really enjoying working out. I'm also very much into video games. I mostly play on xbox, but I also have a pc and I do play some games on there. Games I'm playing/playing again are path of exile, ark survival evolved(who doesnt love dinosaurs?)board games on table top simulator(sentinels of the multiverse anyone?) Solasta, crown of the magister and thats about it at the moment. I'm also into dungeons and dragons. I just made a wizard for a game my friend is hosting and I'm worried I'm going to die horribly, lol.

Outside of gaming I enjoy trying to teach myself guitar, a little bit of anime, definetly love swimming and walking, and music makes me happier than most things in this world. I'm also open to new hobbies so let me know what your hobbies are. Let's try them together!

My general personality

Well... it's kinda hard to wrap up the kind of person I am in short post like this but I genuinely think I'm a positive person and I like to look for the best in people. I'm a hard working man, I like to talk about my feelings and work problems out. Admittedly, I'm not always amazing at expressing myself, but I always try my best. I care a lot about the people in my life and I will get and help if I can. I like to think that I have a friendly disposition.

So heres the NSFW stuff

I'm getting a little tired as I continue to type this out so please excuse me if I forget anything important. Kinks I'm into are ddlg, free use, spanking, slight degradation, praise, sub/dom play, bdsm aspects, age gaps, and more but I'm starting to blank.

Kinks that I am NOT into are diapers, water sports, scat, blood, knives, leaving lost lasting marks.

Reddit chat is preferred but messages work too. I just dont always get notifications for messages. I mostly use discord or sometimes kik to talk on. I have no problem sharing a picture.