Male, 40, straight, athletic (amateur competitive). 5’11, 175lb, green eyes, soft lips, nice smile. College educated. A sweet mix of sensual and sadistic. Seeking local ongoing and occasional play partner. Looking for in-person play, not online.

My current sub has moved to the east coast, so I’m looking for someone new...

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I lay your naked body on the bed and attach my comfortable fur-lined leather wrist and ankle cuffs to you. I secure my leather play collar around your neck and look deeply into your eyes with a smile. I tie your wrists to the corners of the bed, spread out above you, and run my fingertips down your outstretched arms. Next you feel your legs pulled apart as I tie your ankles to the bottom corners of the bed... your body now spread-eagle and tightly restrained, your armpits and breasts exposed and vulnerable, your stomach and pussy completely defenseless. The most sensitive and vulnerable parts of your body are spread and at my mercy. I have the ability to deliver as much pleasure — or as much pain — to your naked body as I desire. I let you pull against your restraints and kiss your neck softly.

Fortunately for you I am a kind, empathetic soul, who gets pleasure from giving you the experience that turns you on most. Yes, in addition to a soft, sensual side I have a sadistic side that likes watching a sub fighting against pain, but it is let out in play only if you want to experience it.

I run my fingers through your hair and kiss your forehead as I place my blindfold over your eyes, and you sink back into the pillow, breathing deeply and nervously. I remind you of how safe you are with me, but also how terribly helpless and fragile you are. You know that you are always free to struggle and brat when you are with me, but learn quickly that punishment is always swift and often painful.

From here I take you on a journey of sensation and emotion, pleasure and/or pain, depending on what turns you on. I enjoy long, drawn-out foreplay, and fingers and lips explore all of your body, not missing a part. I love the primal aspect of play and press my body against yours, holding you down even further, and move my hand to lightly hold your throat.

If you want more of a sensual experience we focus on edging — bringing you to the brink of orgasm multiple times before allowing you to cum, exploring multiple orgasms, and experiencing other sensual or tactile play. I love to combine sex and kink and may fill you with my thick cock while you are bound, and since you are blindfolded you will never know when that is coming or what else to expect. I worship your body, both keeping it safe and using it for my pleasure, and drinking in your female beauty and helplessness.

Typically I use pain play as a contrast to pleasure, heightening your arousal and forcing your total submission, and your lack of sight keeps you constantly on your toes. Perhaps I will softly lick your clit followed by some hard smacks to your pussy with my palm, followed by some more licking, and more smacks.... the intensity of both increasing as you pull at your restraints and we cycle through pleasure and pain. We may explore some impact play, using my flogger or other implements to hit your thighs, breasts, pussy, ass or feet. Perhaps some pressure point play, clamps, hot wax play, clothes pegs, or other toys.

For masochist subs who crave intensity, limit-pushing, and loss of control I increase the impact intensity and use my electro-sex toys (clit/nipple/dildo) on your body. I safely and expertly attach one or more of these to your most sensitive parts, delivering very precise and measured levels of pain through you. You will be helpless and defenseless as I increasingly torture your body to or near its limit, holding you tight or kissing your neck as you experience a loss of control... As the electric pain courses through your sexual pathways you may cum involuntarily in long shuddering, full-body orgasms that roll on and on. I watch you closely every second to make sure you are ok, and you can use your hand signals to safeword at any time.

As you tire or reach your limit I reduce the pain, make you cum explosively, and hold you tight as you float into subspace. Note that we don’t need to visit such levels of intensity if you don’t want to, and if you are new we would explore slowly and in phases, but I am willing to take you to these intense, darker places of intense helplessness if you wish. I am also open to CNC.

Regardless of the intensity you desire, we always end the same way... with you being held in my strong arms, our naked bodies intertwined — your body engulfed within mine, safe and warm... some light kisses and tender care. The more you have hurt the tighter I hold you, and I let you know how proud I am of your strength. We rest like this as long as we need, enjoying the togetherness and the deep intimacy of the trust that we have shared. I follow up with you afterwards and the next day to make sure you are well.

• I am poly/open with a non-sexual domestic partner, and typically only have time for occasional play (once every 1-2 weeks, weekdays actually better availability although weekends can be made to work) with one sub at a time. I like to form an ongoing caring bond with my sub. Mutual care and adoration without attachment. I don’t mind if you have other partners.

• I am athletic, but fit, take good care of my body, and am attracted to subs who are generally in average-to-good shape.

• I am very affectionate, and play best with subs who love touch and affection. I keep drama and conflict out of my life so please be a drama-free type of personality.

• I really enjoy introducing those new to kink. I don’t care about your experience level, but I do care that you are a good communicator.

• Age doesn’t matter. I have played with subs -20 and 10 years. I quite enjoy age gap play because of the intense inequality in the power exchange it creates.

• Vanilla interests: outdoor adventure, running, hiking, cycling, dogs, backpacking, writing, history, and science.

• Fully vaccinated. Don’t care if you are or not.

• No blood, needle, or toilet function play.

Message me if you are interested in learning more, sharing photos, etc :)