To be clear right at the top; I'm not looking for something short term or a bedroom-only sort of relationship. First and foremost I'm seeking a evidently personal connection and enjoyment of your company. I'm looking for a friend, someone to talk with openly and without hesitation. But clearly woven throughout that connection is our own deep-seated dominance and submission.

You need to be a woman willing to listen, quick to learn, and interested in enjoying the process of developing trust and discovering how to submit to me and respond to my dominance. I enjoy the mental aspects as much as anything else, so I always look forward to discovering and exploring who you are.

I tend to enjoy women with a somewhat traditional view of gender dynamics, or one that can accept the idea. Often I end up with quite mature women or those with professional careers, though that's certainly not an expectation, simply an observation.

Any level of experience in D/S dynamics is perfectly fine to me. I believe that good dynamics will develop and build off of a personal connection with trust, respect and intimacy

Any location is welcome, I've found timezones to not be too much of an issue and if things went well, I'm very open to travel eventually. Having said all that, there is a preference for Australians, but don't let that dissuade you from saying hi.

A Little About Me:

I like to read, write, research for enjoyment, camp, tinker with things, and work. I'm a strong introvert but have no issues "reading" people or communicating. I like leather armchairs, heavy wooden desks and old books (in case a sort of aesthetic helps you imagine people). I've always had a tendency to want to control, protect, and dominate, though never by brute force. I'm self employed and do contract work in academics and business consultancy.

Things I'm into: (feel free to ask about any of these to hear more) TPE, 24/7, domestic servitude, slave-master dynamics, humiliation, misogyny, ownership, breeding, mental domination, rough and primal domination, micro management (selecting your clothes and schedule), wholistic domination, task mastering, discipline, and causing some pain.

Hopefully none of that dissuades you.

As previously said, I'm looking to meet, chat, get to know, explore, test, enjoy, and see what dynamics might grow with someone who answers this ad. I very much enjoy the process of discovering what dynamics will develop together, and even a submissive woman discover her kinky side that she's never explored. Long term I hope to find a deep and personal connection emotionally, mentally, sexually, and all built around our kink dynamics.

I don't bite and welcome any questions or inquiries for similar dynamics.

I look forward to hearing from you.