Hi all! I’m a 28 year old guy living in Des Moines, Iowa but I’m always open to long distance and starting online too. I’m 6’1, a bigger guy with long hair, some tattoos and piercings. I’m kind of an all around nerdy type of guy. I love comics, reading, movies, video games, true crime, etc. My real loves and passions are cooking and writing, however. I’ve been thinking for a while of going back to school for culinary arts with a minor in writing. I also love being outside, despite all the nerdy introverted things I’m into. I’ve recently got into traveling and taking trips as well. Visited Arizona last year and LOVED it.

I’m switch, and I’m more of a daddy dom and caregiver when dominant, having experienced it largely in my previous relationship where it played a big part. That said, my dominant side isn’t strictly a daddy but I’d definitely say I’m more of a soft dom. I’m always open to talking to more littles/middles as it’s what I have the most experience with (plus they’re just the cutest). My main kinks as a dominant/daddy are praise (one of my favorites), choking, leaving marks, orgasm control, punishments and rewards.

I’d also love to get the chance to explore my submissive side too. Ideally it would be with another switch, so we can both be dominant and submissive at times. I’m not entirely sure what I’m into as a sub because I have far more experience being dominant, so this would be something we’d take slowly. I know a few of my hard limits, however, the main being chastity. Just not my thing.

Lastly since I know this has been kind of long, I’m looking for someone 18 to mid 30s, who is looking for not just fun but a relationship. I had a much better connection with my previous sub/little since she was also my girlfriend. I do have more of a preference for chubby/bbw women for what it’s worth, but it’s in no way a necessity. It’s cliche to say but looks aren’t everything. If this catches anyone’s eye feel free to either message or send a chat. Tell me a little about yourself! Hope to hear from you soon!