You see, I think I've figured out my problem and this may sound like a humble brag but I'm very sincere. I think I might be intimidating. I'm a self assured, opinionated woman in my day to day life, I can't get a guy to shut my ass up in bed before I can tell him what to do (thanks Ali Wong)to save my hide. And so I think I scare potential Doms off, especially because I'm a switch.

I want to be dominated, I want to let go of control and be guided ever so roughly.

So are you more dominant than I am?

I'm 28 I live just outside of Seattle, I'm relatively fit, I go to the gym most days I'm pretty with blond hair, green eyes and pale skin Besides the above questions I would rather you be at least 30, no older than 37 and be in shape, good looking and willing to get to know me and my limits before you ever consider trying to bend me to your will. Dating will be necessary.