Hi there!

The last time I posted an ad on this page, I met a wonderful sub. Unfortunately our vanilla lives got in the way and she could not dedicate enough time to make the relationship work. So we parted ways some time ago and now I am back over here, hoping to meet another wonderful sub.

My name is Nick, 31 years old and i live in Western Europe (CET). I work a full time office job but like many of you I have been working from home for the past year. In my spare time I like to play sports, meeting up with friends, watching movies, hiking and travelling, although a few of these are quite hard/impossible at the moment due to covid. Next to my vanilla lifestyle, I have had an interest in bdsm and being dominant in the bedroom for the last 8 years.

I consider myself more of a (daddy) dom than a master, since i don’t have the intention of controlling a sub’s life completely, and i like to care about my subs too. In my past experience I have had a few long-term subs, and (unfortunately) some short-term subs as well (ghosters). For the past 4 years, I have also acquired more real-life experience. For now, I am mostly looking for online, since most of you are located far away, but I am open to something in real life. Ideally we would be to start online and eventually meet each other. If you are from Western Europe, this will make it easier, but I will not rule out subs from other continents.

What i’m looking for

I am looking for a female sub for a serious, but part-time relationship. I am not interested in 24/7 control, I understand that your own private/vanilla life is a lot more important than this kinky lifestyle.

I’m looking for someone who, in time, after trust and respect is earned, wants to serve me in anyway possible (within limits), just because she wants to make her dom happy, being turned on in the process. Of course, your limits are always respected. I should also mention I prefer someone with a slim to normal body type.

I would like to talk and play with you regularly, but this can be discussed. I am interested in something serious, but I am up for something casual as well, depending on your availability and needs. Besides kink, I like to have non-kink related conversations as well. A good sense of humour is quite important for me.

I would prefer someone whose time zone is not too far away from me, but from previous experience I have learnt that a lot is possible, even when you are 6-9 hours apart, as long as you are both willing and devoted. It might require a bit of flexibility though.

You will need to be able to verify yourself. I will do the same.

Communication

Communication is really, really important in a dom/sub-relationship. I really want to know what you like or don’t, and what’s going through your mind. Everything can be discussed. If you’re not comfortable about something, I wanna know about it. I will never let you do something which you are really not comfortable about or something that includes great risks (public, family, etc). Aftercare is also really important. More important for me to know is what you need in this relationship, and before, during and after sessions.

Also, it’s quite normal for us, with busy schedules, to not always have time for this kind of play. I absolutely understand it if you’re not able to talk/play for days or even weeks, but just let me know it. I have had some subs in the past who, out of nowhere, just disappeared without saying anything. That is just a shame and a waste of my time. Once again, everything can be discussed, just tell me. Ghosting, however, is unacceptable.

You have to talk in proper English. Of course, speaking it fluently is not necessary (English is not my first language as well, as you may have noticed by now), but you need to be able to form proper sentences and communicate easily.

What i like to do with/to my slaves

It would be great if our interests somehow match. The list below contains a few things I like to do to my slaves and which I hope you as a sub like as well. However, it’s not needed for you to like all the things listed below. We can always discuss likes, dislikes and limits.

My main kinks:

• Bondage
• Orgasm control
• Tease and denial
• Humiliation
• Choking
• Edging
• Nipple play
• Dressing up/clothing control
• Anal
• Pain
• Impact play
• Ice
• Wax

Limits

The following list contains (among others) a few (standard) things I will never make you do as my sub:

Permanent damage, scars/marks, heavy/extreme pain, scat, blood, needles, illegal, blackmail, dangerous; anything filthy, with too great risks or dangerous (the standard list).

How we will play

I prefer regular, (almost) daily contact via messaging, combined with a small set of rules. On top of that, 1 live (cam/audio) session a week/every other week, depending on both our schedules, and weekly tasks (also depending on schedules) via skype, kik or e-mail.

I don't require you to do audio/video calls from the start. And you will be seeing me as well (unless you like the mistery and therefore prefer not to)! You are also allowed to hide your face when we eventually do video calls

I understand that some subs prefer kik sessions over video calls, but for me the interactive part in a video call is very important, where I can direct you in detailed ways and respond to your actions directly. So, no waiting on either side. I highly prefer this over giving you tasks, waiting until you do them and report to me, before being able to give you the next task. I get that for some subs this can be too much to start however, and I respect that.

These sessions can be discussed of course. I will do anything I can do to build trust between us. I have a webcam too and i will use it if needed/wanted. Of course, you don’t have to show your (full) face if you don't want to. If you really don’t want to start with cam sessions from the start, i will give you time for this and we will think of a sufficient alternative.

Apply

Are you interested in becoming my sub and are you intrigued by what you read above? Then feel free to contact me via a private message and answer the questions below. From there, we can communicate via Skype, kik or e-mail.

- (nick)Name (real name not required)

- Gender

- Age

- Body appearance/type

- Location/time zone (specific country or state not required)

- Your likes, dislikes and limits

- If you have a webcam (eventually required, but not from the start)

- What kind of sub you consider yourself?

- Why you would like to become my sub?

If you have any questions yourself, feel free to ask.

Nick