But like, actually...
For some, ropes and cuffs and blindfolds are a vehicle for sex: a fun way to "mix things up" or "add a little spice." On the other hand, I'd wager that the majority of people in this sub weight things differently. Vanilla sex is great, but having one partner tied within an inch of their life—unable to dodge the bamboo switch, and impossible to dislodge the vibrator—is an experience on a totally different level. For me, it's rope. Watching your legs flex hopelessly against the spiral futomomo as I edge you for the 100th time is almost as satisfying as the rope marks carved into your thighs once I untie you.
I'm hoping to find someone with the same (but of course, opposite) attraction to rope bondage. I don't just want to play, I want to practice. What better way to get to know each other than throwing a sitcom we've both seen 5 times, chatting about work, and seeing how many tutorials we can make it through on The Duchy. Note: I'm not looking for someone who will let me tie them up; this is a collaborative activity that requires effort, preparation, trust, and communication in both directions. It truly is a craft.
Real quick, here's my "But wait I'm a normal guy too!" blurb: attended top 5 schools, well into a career that I'm deeply passionate about (aka not finance), in good shape (pic), am a mediocre guitar player and cook. None of that really gives you any idea who I am, of course. Best I can give you is how my friends would describe me: optimistic, outgoing, definitely not someone who'd be posting to reddit classifieds...
If you're interested: lmk which sitcom you propose, and which tie you've been dying to try :)
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