Part of me feels crazy even writing this. It's definitely a niche thing I'm looking for, against the arbitrary norms society places on how gender roles 'should' be, that it seems strange even typing this out.

But I know this is what I want. Truly.

For most of my life post-puberty, I've noticed that the more attracted I was to a young lady, the more I found myself wanting to serve her, to obey her, that she was 'above' me. Even though society dictated that a man should lead, or at most, the two should be equal, I've always known intuitively I wanted my partner to be the one in charge.

Discovering the concept of a Female-Led Relationship was actually a relief to me. To think that there are others in the world, however few, who are searching for what I am. A relationship, harmonious and loving like any other - but one in which the woman comes first, the woman is in charge, and the focus is on her pleasure and convenience first and foremost.

I think I'm a romantic at heart, and would love to let my partner take the lead in her own way and let things develop naturally, but I adore the thought of my partner being affectionate but quite controlling, and I'd really enjoy seeing how obedient I could be to her. It's something fascinating we could experience together.

In all honesty, I've never experienced anything like this in real life. But I crave it. And maybe it could be a beautiful reality some day.

So I'm hoping perhaps beyond reasonable hope to see if I can find any others out there who feel the same. May as well try.

If it seems we have similar interests, maybe send me a message saying hi, tell me a bit about yourself maybe, and let's see what happens.

A bit of miscellaneous facts about me:

• 31
• INTP/J
• Living in Asia, but originally from the West. I can speak Mandarin moderately ok. Not looking to leave the area, so probably ideal to meet someone from this part of the world, but I'll talk to anyone. :)
• 184 CM
• Brown Hair, Green Eyes. A little facial hair. Happy to send a picture after we send a few messages if you seem cool.
• Working in education; thinking of going back to graduate school in a year or two.
• I really enjoy travel (I've been to over 30 countries!) and biking / hiking / being in nature in general. I also enjoy weightlifting and try to stay relatively fit. Staying healthy is important to me, and I hope it is to you too.
• Equally well, I'm a homebody. I enjoy chilling and watching true crime documentaries or ones on pretty esoteric philosophy or many other things. Heh.
• I really have a thing for psychological horror and science fiction films
• I have an idea for a novel and REEEEAAALLLY need to start writing some time soon.