Hello, my name is Peter. The goth part is optional but I do like the goth/industrial aesthetic.
Dealbreakers: I have a vasectomy, I do not want children, and I cannot live with cats.
I'm looking for something like a traditional household relationship but with kink. You can have your own room if you want and you do not have to work unless you want to or have a lot of debt. Your time will pretty much be free to do as you wish as long as the house, garden, and small pool are taken care of. I am not messy, so with no children that is not a lot of work. Despite you having your time to do as you wish, this will be a free-use situation.
This is for IRL, if you are not in Vegas that is okay as long as you are willing to eventually relocate if we develop something. I do not want an online-only relationship although it can start that way.
I'm single with a home and live alone with no children. I'm hoping to adopt a rescue dog soon as my dog died a couple years ago.
Interests: video games, cannabis, European board games, creating music, playing at open mics, reading, fitness, health, D&D, swing or techno dancing. I don't watch TV but sometimes I will binge a season of It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia or Star Trek. I can somewhat swing dance and if you want I can take you out dancing. Before the pandemic I'd maybe go to the brewpup or bar once a week; camping 2-3x/year. I live near a State Park with a pond and will go fishing about once a month. I have experience in BDSM for about 10 years.
Me: I'm a doctor (ask what type), I work M-F, and I love my job. I'm intelligent, empathetic, and dominant. I meditate and I also grow mushrooms. I'm hygienic and clean (I get tested for STIs), and COVID vaccinated. The only drugs I use are cannabis and psychedelics. I have a kegerator but I only drink on weekends. I sometimes enjoy scotch. I'm mostly an introvert but I can be social. Some favorite bands: Type-O-Negative, Skinny Puppy, Mr. Bungle, Aphex Twin, Emperor, Mgla, Faith No More.
You: I'm open to beginners and all the way up to Total Power Exchange. No children, and a-little-extra is okay but not morbidly obese (no offense if you are and you deserve love too). I prefer someone who doesn't watch much TV but that really doesn't matter if I don't have to hear it going all the time. I would prefer someone willing to join me in some of the activities I listed above, such as sometimes going camping or to the brewpub. You need to be trustworthy; I will end the relationship otherwise.
Kinks: flexible, I prefer we chat about this. Bonus points (these are not necessary) for interests in: consensual non-consent, exhibitionism - going to swinger/sex-clubs, and having a safe and regular gangbang and orgy group. I otherwise prefer monogamy. I can be a sadist or a daddy but I don't need to be. Hard limits: feces, blood, animals, children.
Here is my techno single:
https://music.apple.com/us/album/embryo-10-the-monster-that-you-are/1511874853?i=1511874856
https://open.spotify.com/track/7IFtRmJVON3eLDAaQlSRFd?si=9543a28980414961
Here is me playing the guitar and singing (I have long hair now): https://share.icloud.com/photos/0vfA1UvOQwfUijFcAx-fbwegw
If this all sounds good I hope to hear from you!
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