Freedom is overwhelming, there are so many choices and you don't always know which is the right thing to do. That's why you need guidelines, someone telling you which path to follow, at the end you want some validation, feel useful and valuable, and most of all, be praised for it.

Maybe you need a place where you can explore your dirty side without worrying about being judged for it. Perhaps all you want is to hear some rewarding words, being pat on your head and told you have been a good girl. Other times you might feel vulnerable and just want to know there is someone who will take care of everything.

What I'm looking for is not all about sex, but it's true the sexual aspect has a significant weight. At the end the we don't know each other yet so kink will be our main connection. On top of that I would like to build a relationship, but first I need to feel attracted to you so I can fully enjoy the relationship, otherwise I will lose interest.

Ideally I expect complicity, some compatibility between us. I want a relationship that goes beyond the bedroom and take control of some aspects of your life, sexually or not. In any case this will be something private. I don't want to interfere with your personal or professional life or expose you in public.

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My main interests are orgasm control, edging and humiliation. I enjoy taking control of my sub, telling her what to do and see how her body reacts to my commands, how she gets pleasure or struggles to hold the orgasm. I like hearing her begging to cum. I prefer mental over physical domination. I can be rough if I want, but I prefer being kind and gentle. Even so I have a sadistic side and can enjoy seeing how my sub "suffers" to complete a task or asking my sub to make choices which might regret later.

Then I also like bondage, spanking, gags and most of kinks which are not too extreme. As said, I like seeing how my sub reacts and kinks are the tools I have to provoke her reactions.

When I'm in charge of a sub I genuinely want to take care of her, I want to make her feel safe and valued. I want to caress, cuddle and hold her between my arms. In that sense I can act as a Daddy, but it depends the chemistry there is between us. In any case I need to feel attracted to my sub and that she feels the same way towards me. Basically if I feel the relationship works I will want to protect and take care of my sub.

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For now I want to start talking, discuss about kinks and see how much control you are willing to give, how much attention you need and overall what I can expect from you. I don't care about your age or experience (as long as you are 18).

We can take it slowly, at a pace you are comfortable with. I don't want this to be just a game, at the end what I want is your sincere submission. I will slowly get into your life, giving you guidelines and rules to follow. While this will start online I would like to meet in real at some point.

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I'm from Spain and I prefer someone from Europe as it can make things easier in terms of communication and time difference. That being said, I'm open to any location. On the short term this will be probably just online, but I could consider moving (mainly to Europe, perhaps US) in the future.

If you are interested send me a message with some introduction of yourself and what do you expect from this. Tell me a bit about you, at least tell me your name, age and location.