Not at all interested in only fans or paying tributes or findom!

TL;DR: 30yo, muscular intellectual switch male, 6’1” , straight. Switch but submissive most of the time. Well-groomed and hygienic. Looking for a normal, serious relationship but with someone who’s also into kink. I have hard limits like everyone else but for the right woman there is virtually nothing I wouldn’t do.

Long version: When in sub mode I’m an Alphasub. I’m in control of my life and got my shit together. I have a good, demanding career where I am dominant and in control, which is why I like to do the opposite I’m the bedroom.

When in Dom mode I love to make a woman squeal for mercy.

Likes: Femdom, facesitting, light CBT, feet, humiliation, body worship, JOI, CNC, tie and tease, tie and torture, mummification, human furniture, and many more.

Dislikes: Findom, Scat, blood/gore, severe pain.

Curious to try: Forced Bi and cucking. A woman forcing me against my will to do things to a man, or have a man do things to me, is something I am curious to try with the right woman. Or her getting pleasure from another man while I’m forced to watch. I’d be so jealous but that would add to the thrill of it for me (that’s my inner masochist talking).

My mind makes Christian Grey look like a tellytubby. I’d love to find a woman who is the same.

Outside of the bedroom I’m a genuine nice guy. No one knows I’m into kink, let alone into femdom. It’s my dirty secret. I am a software developer and I love building apps in my spare time. I love all the usual stuff - hiking, music, social drinks, a good movie or series, anything related to ghosts or the paranormal, serial killer documentaries...uh oh, I’m starting to sound like an psycho! Quick change subject....errrr tennis, weightlifting, etc. I feel like a hippie in a suit these days.

Not one for flings, they are impersonal, awkward and the sex is never good. I’d much rather take time to get to know someone and have a meaningful connection than just quick sex with a stranger.

Looks-wise, I’m not shallow. I am into most women. All races, slim, toned, muscular, average, a little larger than average, thicc, but I’m not into curvy or BBW. I’m also sapiosexual and it would be amazing if you’re someone who has your life together too.