Hello my beautiful, weird, judgement-free friends. Beautiful day here in NYC, isn’t it?
I’m J—a 29/M in NYC who’s in good shape and easy on the eyes (verification). Good education, good job, enjoy traveling and working out, blah blah blah. My friends would describe me as easy going but upbeat, and can get lost in conversation about most topics (especially the mundane ones). They most certainly would not describe me as someone who likes to spend Tuesday evenings practicing shibari, though, so maybe you shouldn’t trust them...
First and foremost, I’d like to find someone who would be fun to grab beers (or wine) with. Let’s start with: you have fun meeting new people, are passionate about your work, and have a good sense of humor. Most of all, looking for a decent, considerate, and open minded person. Maybe we click, maybe not. But it’s never a waste to meet cool people.
Arrangement-wise, I’m looking for someone who truly loves being tied up. Even with sex removed from the equation, you should enjoy the pure experience of being tightly and creatively restrained. I would like to level-up my shibari game from proficient to expert, and need an equally enthusiastic subject who also wants to push themselves. Further, it’s always fun to give the ropes a reason to be holding you down—whether it’s teasing, edging, impact play, etc.
If we’re looking for the same thing, drop me a message. Otherwise, don’t give up—the person you’re looking for is lurking around here somewhere…
Edit: To my any potential new friends who run across this, please be advised that I reside in London now. Come visit :D
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