Hey there! I’m a 5’4 sassy submissive with wild shoulder length blonde hair (this changes often but on average it is blonde) and blue eyes. I am in the Middle Tennessee area. I’m a bit of a Smart Ass Masochist, and I crave discipline (seriously, if you’re not into discipline, I’m not the sub for you). I’ve been in the BDSM lifestyle for going on 6 years now. The last 4 of which has been irl as well as online. I’m an avid reader, but I despise assigned reading. My other hobbies include crocheting, video games, jigsaw puzzles and walking.

Here’s what I’m looking for in you: experienced, creative Dom with a sadistic side. Familiarity with Drop and Aftercare. I need you to be well versed in discipline. But I’m not looking to become a slave, I crave banter. I can get a little bratty every now and then, and I need to be reminded of my place. Bonus points if you can video chat/ talk on the phone.

I need you to help hold me accountable to the things i need to do (e.g. staying hydrated, studying, self care things). I have an incredibly long list of both kinks and limits, which I would love to discuss in detail with you. My top kinks are discipline, verbal degradation, humiliation, spanking, anal, and orgasm control.

Also: I am ethically non monogamous with my husband, who knows and supports that I am looking for a Dom, but is not interested in being part of a dynamic. If that is a deal breaker for you, I understand and wish you the best finding what you’re looking for. Otherwise, I look forward to reading your introductory message 😊.

Eta: I don’t use kik or Snapchat, but instead prefer to use the telegram app.