Hello there,

I am a Dominant man looking for a submissive woman. I consider myself something of a Daddy Dom/Caregiver type. I am looking for a girl who is a babygirl, little, or pet type (Or mixture of any of these).
My post says #life because I am wanting someone I can have with me for the foreseeable future in the real world. I fully understand these things take time to build to, but I do not want someone who is restricted to online interaction only.
I have been in online BDSM communities for almost 10 years. I have had less face to face D/s relationships than I'd like. I would have to say my experience would be lower in the kink side of things than in the knowledge side of things for certain, though I do know what I do and do not like in my girl.

A little bit about me.

The bads: (If you can't handle these go ahead and move on. This is who I am.)
I have survived 3 major car accidents in my life. I've been left less capable at things like walking than I'd like to be. As such I am a larger gentleman, but have been recently taking steps toward losing a few pounds.
I am disabled, but passable as "Normal". (It's not one major disability, it's the sum of all the smaller things.) This means I do not work, but I do have a stable income and life.

I do not drive (Cars truly terrify me) I tend to walk, take public transit or get Taxis/rides from friends.

I have some physical flaws that may be off-putting to some people. If you're interested in me, we can go in to detail in private.

I do deal with depression, but have been on stable meds for over a year.

I'm a nerd (RPGs, video games, board games, etc.)

The goods:
I have years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle, even though the majority of it has been online until this point, the experience and knowledge do exist.
I have been a facilitator in more than one online BDSM community in the role of teacher, discussion organizer, and "Security guard" (helping others stay safe and removing trolls/harassers from conflicts).
I am very knowledgeable in a lot of areas when it comes to BDSM and am very open to discussing pretty much anything and everything kink related.
I am a loyal friend to those that have earned my friendship.

I know a little bit about almost everything (maybe this is a bad thing... I don't know.) One of my favorite things to tell people is "I don't know anything, I only know everything." Which means I'm clueless to some things, but I will absolutely surprise you with the random (and real) bits of knowledge I do have.

I am ready, willing and able to bring in a girl, train her, and help her become my little darling. I'm looking for something long term to permanent. There's no games here, only the desire to no longer be alone.

I'm a nerd (RPGs, video games.. ok, you get the joke)

I'm open to other things as well. Need a friend? I'm here. Need someone to just talk to? I'm here. Want someone who can write out dirty fiction... yeah, I love to write.

Drop me a line. Let me know about yourself. We can open up more outside of a random intro on Reddit. (It's always hard to come up with what to write in a public forum).

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Anyway, if I haven't scared you off by now, I'm sure we'll get along.

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Hope your day is going great!