Hello, fellow lonely/depraved redditors!

I’m looking for something that is a little out there, in many ways something that a lot of people can not provide.

I am a dominant by nature, and it’s something that I’ve explored on the dirty side of reddit over the last 6 years or so. I’ve had my fair share of online experiences to know that chatting doesn’t last all that too long. It tends to lose its charm after a while.

I want to try something new, something different. I want to build up a friendship, to the point where you burden me with responsibility to take care of you. Power exchange isn’t something that’s completely new, especially to those that are experienced in the BDSM universe. It isn’t new to me either. Any dom/submissive relationship that I’ve had the pleasure to partake in, I’ve been given that power.

However, there’s something key that I have almost always craved. That is...trust. It’s such a taboo word in the online environment. Can you really trust a stranger? The answer to that is...always a no. You can’t. I myself would agree with that statement. But I really, really crave that trust from someone. I want to take someones trust, and keep it close and dear to me. I want to be pleased, but I want to be pleased knowing that you trust me. I want to be pleased, knowing that you are vulnerable for me...because you trust me.

Ah, so you might have noticed what gets me off. It’s you being vulnerable for me, which can not happen without trust.

Then the question arises...why should you trust me? I shall answer with, you shouldn’t trust me. If you trust me, then you are likely to trust someone else, someone who may be a predator. Yet, here I am, still craving for someone’s trust.

Why would you message me? Maybe you are crazy, maybe you are bored of vanilla relationships, maybe you just want to say fuck it and explore a path that you have not explored yet.

If you are thinking of messaging me, it’s because you are open to trusting me, and as part of that you must also be open to be an exhibitionist. Spoil me with candid selfies throughout the day/week. I don’t expect this to be 24/7 or even an everyday thing. I want you to make me a part of your life, make choices for you, decisions for you, maybe even...make your life better. I don’t drink. I don’t smoke. I don’t do drugs. Maybe....I can motivate you to be better. I’m happy to take it slow, outside of sexy stuff, you will be my equal and you will have a voice. I’m friendly and respectful, which you will come to feel when we connect.

So what am I like? I’m a (6’3”), exotic, lightly tanned male, with above average penis (veiny!). I have an athletic build (although currently I am bulking and have some extra adipose around my abdomen). I’m a long-bearded bear, who is a sharp dresser and grooms well. I’m open minded and extremely kinky...a friendly giant. I like my hygiene ❤️.

What am I looking from you? Trust, candidness, ability to communicate your feelings even when you disagree with me. Physically, I am fairly open minded. Stretch marks/hairyness/Curvy is fine ❤️. Just be you, and be confident...we will get along.

So if you made it this far and are somewhat interested, then shoot me a message letting me know you are interested and lets see if we click. If we don’t, that’s ok too :).