Me: I’m 33/f-5’10, pale (I freckle), blue eyes.

I’m college educated, just starting my career. I am recently divorced, it’s finalized.

I play video games very casually, I read a great deal, dabble in the arts and crafts, and enjoy cooking. I love the outdoors and I will avidly wonder at nature or people watch from a corner.

I’m an idealist but recognize the extremes of this as mostly fantasy. Logic prevails 🖖🏻.

I have a mind, I use it. I value conversation and philosophical debates as much as I enjoy after care, date nights, and cuddling.

Kinks: your attitude and desire. All of the kinks in the world have little effect if the way they are applied doesn’t embody an ultimate desire to control and own. You just can’t help yourself.

Plugged, masked, and drooling on your cock under your desk while you play video games is hollow if there isn’t a loving, affection, burning desire to train, control, and mold.

My vanity or insecurity, loves attention. I enjoy some micromanaging. Though, I recognize this is energy and time demanding of my partner, I’d prefer it to be slowly used as training in one or a few things at a time.

I’m into erotic hypnosis-brainwashing, submissive training, mantras, and the edging that comes with that, but you don’t have to be. It can be a tool for any Dom. Otherwise my kinks include: submission, bondage, spanking (different areas), breath play, hair pulling, gags, drooling, oral fixation, anal manipulation, orgasm control.. the list goes on.

There are few things that are a hard pass for me-scat, beastiality, blood and extreme torture. Those are all safety concerns.

I prefer a one-one situation for the same reasons, multiple partners with multiple partners can be a loaded gun.

You: 28-38 M, looking for a long term sub to begin online but ultimately irl. Syfy/fantasy nerd who values the duality of the relationship.