So the broad stroke is I want a submissive to control and create a TPE dynamic where I have a hand in everything you do. Bit by bit I want to start controlling your life until I own your entire existence. I want this to start off as a dynamic only and can be long distance but if there's real chemistry to move towards a irl relationship dynamic. Emphasis on relationship, I want you to be my partner and it to transcend being just a kink thing or just a romantic thing. They both go hand in hand. That is the end goal. So being single and otherwise unattatched is required. I work night shift but it's not a huge deal.

I want someone a bit bratty. Even if its just being able to keep banter up. I don't mind a girl being shy at first or when really put into that headspace but you have to be able to give some push back or it's no fun. The bigger the personality the better. I love when a smart mouthed gal goes dead silent at a glance because they know their place through experience. Having them in the palm of my hand to the point their entire existence is a plaything for me to enjoy on a whim. Where it becomes a tradeoff. I know I'm the one who can make you melt and you know you're worth the time to melt.

Kinks can include most things including dark and taboo with the exception of copious blood, any bathroom play, and permanent damage/mutilation/etc. Instructions I am interested in would include daily/lifestyle choices(clothing eating etc.), masturbation routine/control, body writing, and more. Bits and pieces negotiable of course. I lean into control and sadism. I also am not overly experienced or partial when it comes to littles. Limits/physical preferences are important for compatibility after all so don't worry about questions. I mainly just miss having that connection that feels likea lit fire.

Experience not required but don't expect to jump right into it and also don't expect me to be the type to pry everything out of you. There's working for progress then there's lack of communication. And communication is key. So in spirit of that in your first message I want age, location, and experience.

Outside of kink I am fairly generically nerdy by today's standards. But I enjoy going out for a weekend camping, driving with nowhere to go. And I've been committing to better life habits with all that's going on. Specifics will be discussed of course but there's an idea.

Also if you're reading this and just are curious about the lifestyle or things related to it feel free to shoot me a PM just stating you're looking for advice or answers to a question.

And to be clear and with all due respect I'm not looking for a sissy nor do I want to make you into one. CIS females only.