Hiya!

I don't actually live in Seattle, I live on over a little in downtown Bellevue, not to get any hopes up. I'm 25, 5'10", and 195lbs. I'm a computer person and moved here two years ago in search of a new career for what has been a hobby and my passion for ever since I was a kid! I love video games, watching movies, taking nightly walks, and I also love a little sporty run here and there. I'm quite competitive, so I'd love someone with enough spirit to keep up with me.

I would identify as a switch, but with more dominant leaning motives. My ideal partner would be someone who is also a switch, matching with submissive leaning motives. I strongly believe in competing with each other, be it video games, with tech, or even with sex, but in a healthy manner. No one likes cruel competition. I'm more referring to learning more about something together and sharing that experience, growing together, and improving as a duo!

I'm fairly new to BDSM as a whole, but I would love to explore it more and more with someone I can feel safe with. I would also like to help that person feel safe too, as reciprocation and care is a two way street!

My biggest fantasy though is not that of sexual nature, but the aftercare. I would very much like to, after finishing a rough bout, to carry her to a warm bath, to settle the mood under a candle lit bathroom, and to lay next to her on the bathroom floor, talking. When she is near done, I'd warm up a towel in the dryer for a few seconds, give it to her to dry off, and bring over a rather large blanket to wrap herself in. I would then carry her to the couch, setting up some anime or a movie while I get dinner ready, giving her a snack in the mean time. I would very much love to treat her as a queen, relationship wise, but treat her like a slut in bed.

If at all any of this sounds interesting, hit me up! I love to talk and I'm more than welcome to hearing from people. I don't bite... much... Haha!

Edit: I'm most definitely still looking! 😊