I’m a 34 year old DaddyDom with a major sadistic streak.  I’ve been into the lifestyle probably as long as I’ve been into sexuality but, for legality sake, we’ll round it down to 16 years. I am also currently in the states; Youngstown, OH to be precise.  Sadly, I have no intention of leaving this hive of …culture? I’m happy and content with my current position and status in my career which can only be negatively affected by any sort of promotion. I don’t switch; I can’t take pain I can only give it. While that may trigger some warning flags, let me explain: I have high functioning autism which, not only effects my interpersonal interactions, also impacts (pun unintended but I’ll leave it) my sensory intake. A few smacks of an implement on my hand and it’s like my brain does countless calibrations on it.  

My previous long-term relationship/marriage recently ended and has led me to a path of finding myself and figuring out what I need to be happy as well as the type of person I’m looking to potentially spend that with.  Ideally, I would like to find something long term but with it would come a lengthy courting period. I’m in no rush and would like to weigh any and all options thoroughly.  I’m not going to turn down the possibility of other relationships unless I have one that is regular and consistent.  I’ve done online only and LDR; ultimately, I need an in person connection.  Exclusivity has to be earned; and, yes, I realize that that is a two way street but so is communication. ("Online only and monogamous" isn't going to happen.) I like frequent communication; my job, though demanding, still has me with a lot of free time during the day and I like to text/instant message a lot. I do like a minimum once a day text, even if it’s just: “Hey! I’m alive but dealing with some stuff. I’ll catch you up tomorrow?”

Physically I'm a stocky 5’6” frame with a shaved head but a nice beard. I wear glasses.  I tend to value comfort over style when it comes to clothing but most of what I wear is black and red. My personality can be described as attentive, caring, strict, loving, firm, excessively formal and polite, and funny (at least, I’m told I’m funny though my humor tends to be dark).  Strange as this may sound: I am a feminist and I respect a woman's right to choose (especially if that choice is to bottom in a power exchange).

Vanillawise I love gaming (I have multiple systems) but I also like movies, anime, tabletop games (yes, I play D&D).  I'm a Potterhead, Whovian, Browncoat, and a Fannibal to name a few. I’m obsessed with football and many of its forms (except soccer for some reason), love watching hockey and lacrosse.  I also like running, hiking, and trying new foods (so long as they’re vegan but I do cook a really good steak). I do like to get out and have cultural experiences, attend comedy shows and concerts (strangely, I have a thing for metal), and all sorts of outdoor activities.  I also enjoy visiting zoos as I’m a huge animal lover and a walking Nat Geo special.

Kinks that can be listed among my favorites include but aren't limited to: power exchange dynamics, rope bondage, impact play, CNC, breath play, biting, anal, hair pulling, oral (giving and receiving), orgasm control, and slave training.  I also have a huge thing for having my bottoms wear ballgags, stockings and garter belts, and platform heels.  (These things are like blood in the water for me.) Most of my Ds relationships have been DDlg in that most, if not all, my former subs called me Daddy at some point. A few former ones have recently/frequently commented how safe and secure they felt with me.  I’m protective but I’m not a micromanager.

Ideally, I'd like to find a woman between 24-42 that's into a majority of my kinks.  Physical attraction is a must as is self confidence (be you and don't be ashamed of that!).  I'm really into goth/alternative girls as a heads up (#fishnets). Height and race aren't issues for me. I'm also very much into redheads.

Shoot your shot!