Hello. My name is Nate and I am an experienced Dom. I’ve been a part of this community for years now and joined the reddit side of it just over a year ago. I am interested in Online or in real life.

For me I am much more into the BD more than the SM. I love the power and control I have over a sub and I love the trust it takes for a sub to be willing to give me that control over them. That trust is also something that doesn’t come immediately so obviously I wouldn’t expect you to submit 5 minutes into our conversation like a lot of online Dom’s do. A true Dom knows submission is earned.

I want a real connection out of this. Someone I can be a friend to but there’s a clear power dynamic. Someone I can get to know outside of NSFW related subjects.

A little more about the NSFW side of me; my favorite kink would have to be orgasm control. Im looking for someone who is willing to give up some control in their life to me. I tend to be possessive as well.

I am also looking for someone willing to truly submit and please, following the rules I give and accepting discipline when needed (within limits of course). If those are followed then I will give you all the praise, attention, and care you can ask for. I do like a brat though and consider myself a brat tamer. So if you’re a brat you get bonus points.

I’d love to get to know you a bit. If you have any questions feel free to ask because I’m an open book. If you think you're the one I'm looking for please shoot me a message. Also if you read this far make your subject line “found” when you message me. Chats are also accepted. Looking forward to hearing from your hun.

If this is up message me. I’m still looking.