Repost. Still looking for a special someone.

Hi there. As the title states, I'm an attractive, educated, NYC-based Dom.

I’m actively seeking opportunities to co-create some really fascinating / erotic / meaningful experiences with new people. I'm also exploring the more severe parts of my personality in a consensual (or consensually non-consensual) way.

I'm open-minded with regard to age or background, but I do have some preferences:

• I'm looking for someone educated (formally or informally). Being particularly drawn to the intellectual, emotional, philosophical facets of BDSM (in addition to the sensuous) means I'm really seeking someone who can articulate feedback in a clear, nuanced manner: you would need to be as much aware of what's intellectually and emotionally stimulating for you in addition to what is making you extra dripping wet. I have great respect for the responsibility of and delight in the creativity afforded by complete control over a sub's "user experience."
• You don't need to know all your limits, but you must be able to communicate them as you discover them. Healthy, safe play means the sub must have some idea of when they are intentionally pushing past their boundaries, when a boundary must be maintained, and when (regardless of what was negotiated) they need to set a boundary. This is important to me because it means you are taking responsibility over your part of the D/s relationship.
• This must be an ethical engagement. If you have other partners, I expect that they are aware and approve of your explorations with me.
• I am seeking someone that I am attracted to, which is means a fairly conventional aesthetic. I'm open minded, but historically I've only been attracted to feminine women (femme-passing, if you're trans). Consequently, I am of course happy to exchange pics early on to check physical chemistry!
• I work in the social impact / social enterprise space. It’s probably important that you see value in making the world a better place. I’m not judge-y, but I do think values alignment will be helpful.

It's important to me that our time together carries positive growth in addition to kinky mindfuckery and sexytimes. As a result, I guess I just want to disclaim that you may have may yourself engaging in acts of public service or self-improvement in addition molding yourself into, say, an ever more perfect vessel for my cum.

I don't have a lot of time to spare (even now), but you'll find that I am decisive and efficient. I'm a deft learner and a clear communicator. I really hope that we can make the most of your time and, with your honest communication, I think we can craft something pretty special.

Note: I am polyamorous. This play doesn’t mean you’d be a part of my other relationships, but if you're bisexual or want to be dommed by a couple, let me know. This would only happen assuming there's mutual interest, availability, and chemistry, but I'll note that this partner is a 27/bi/f brilliant, gorgeous, hilarious force of nature -- and we do occasionally double-dominate subs (which is why I also tagged this post as MF4F; if you're also poly and looking for a couple, definitely holler!)

As it happens I'm also looking for folks to join in on a kinky roleplaying experience I've been planning. Please see my post history for more information on that!

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Lastly, here are my bdsmtest.org results:

• 99% Owner
• 99% Non-monogamist
• 98% Rigger
• 86% Primal (Hunter)
• 76% Voyeur
• 76% Experimentalist
• 75% Vanilla
• 74% Daddy/Mommy
• 69% Master/Mistress
• 59% Degrader
• 59% Sadist
• 46% Ageplayer
• 46% Exhibitionist
• 45% Dominant
• 43% Boy/Girl
• 41% Submissive
• 40% Brat
• 38% Brat tamer
• 31% Slave
• 31% Switch
• 26% Primal (Prey)
• 25% Pet
• 14% Rope bunny
• 5% Masochist
• 2% Degradee