I’m a 41 year old married male who identifies as dom/kink possibly mixed with some poly (if your a submissive couple let’s definitely chat), looking for a submissive female (married mother or attached would be great but not a deal breaker) for a long term online relationship. I have experience with a long term submissive that was amazing, but life situations changed and we both felt it best she prioritized her attention elsewhere. The hole that has been left in my life is driving me crazy and needs to be filled

More than anything I’m looking for a connection, my online kinky best friend, that spark that gives you butterflies and makes you check your phone whenever possible to see if there is a message. Good morning and good night texts are important check ins for me as I form a caring relationship. Someone to explore with, share successes and failures, pickup when she needs a hand, someone to listen. My idea of a Dom/Sub relationship is not all sex!

It should go without saying, but I’m not looking to change my situation or yours, simply looking to enhance the existing and fill in the gaps. I’m primarily looking for online play, but if the connection is right, the feeling is mutual, and we happen to be close I’m not opposed to in person play. I’m eastern time zone, NC to be exact.

My kinks vary greatly and I’m always open to exploring new ones. I don’t expect anyone to share all the same (I’d never pressure anyone into something they don’t enjoy or consent to), but here are some. Challenges, tasks, orgasm control/denial/edging, TPE, hidden public, poly, pumping, insertions, stretching, impact play, cuckolding, safe online bondage, sensory deprivation, and many more.

My limits include: underage, scat, permanent damage, blood (menstrual is fine) and gore.

If your still reading at this point it’s a fair bet that we have some things in common. Send me a message and let’s see if there is a connection. I don’t bite, not at first anyway.