As the title says, I'm looking for a submissive for online play. I've talked to many potential subs, but none of them pan out. Please make sure you read through this.

Here are some things I am looking for. This will only be online, so you must be willing to do that. Since it is online, pictures and videos are a must. Now, don't fret, I won't expect you to send full body nudes right away. I understand wanting to be safe, I have been burned in the past myself. However, after we are both comfortable, I would like to see you. You don't need to include your face, but would love it if I could see a smiling face, that's always great to see. Obviously, something like this is a 2 way street, so I will gladly share pictures and videos with you. The attraction needs to be mutual.

I would like to eventually move to video chat so we can talk and play that way. This is negotiable, so don't worry if you don't want to do it or don't feel comfortable for a while. I will always respect you and your limits.

I am in the Midwest, so I am in central time zone. It would be ideal if you were within a couple hours of me.

Things I am into: Some of my favorite kinks are edging and orgasm control and denial. I love getting a sub all built up and then deny them the orgasm they crave. Other things I'm into include nipple play and torture, spanking, breathplay, pain, daily tasks and rules. I enjoy some degradation and humiliation, and am also wanting to try more lifestyle control. I have done some, but am wanting to do more. This is not a must have list for me. I'm always willing to try new things and am flexible. If there is something in this list you are unsure of or don't want to do, don't let that deter you from messaging me. Ultimately it comes down to what you enjoy.

Limits: I don't do blood, scat, anything illegal or permanent. Obviously in addition to these would be your limits.

Am looking for someone into pain. The level of pain you can handle is negotiable, but the more pain you can handle, the better. The ideal sub would be a masochist. I want someone that wants their life controlled. I want to control what you wear, when you cum, and many other things.

Also, please be serious about this. I have had so many people message me, we get a little bit in and then they ghost me. I understand that things come up and life happens. Just talk to me and let me know, I will understand.

I know this has been long winded and hope someone has at least read this far. Anyone who is still with me, hope you have a great day and hope to hear from you soon.