Hi everyone! Trying this again. My last post drove some good conversation but I'm still looking for that elusive sub.

While I'm quite the extrovert, attending munches still feels awkward, Fetlife is not a dating app, and OKC can help, but it is not easy to find subs over there either so trying my luck over here.

I've had 2 medium/long term subs in the past, and both time the BDSM part was great, but the vanilla aspect of the relationship was lacking. And while a few of the shorter one had great chemistry outside of BDSM, lack of common interests in our day to day lives are usually the reason why they didn't turn into something more serious. 

I guess it took me a while to figure that what I want is a partner who is Kinky, not a Kink partner. 

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About me: 

I am very confident in life in general. I know my worth, what I want, and what I don't.  I don't get swayed by much in life so I am quite easy going and I don't get into useless argument.  Someone said of me a few years ago I was "une force tranquille". I quite liked that. I thought it described me quite well. All of that to say if you were to see me walking the street, you likely wouldn't get the usual kinky/Dom vibe from me.

In my day to day, I am very calm, thoughtful, respectful, I take joy in helping those around me and I am good listener.   

I am definitely not into hookup, but I also want to let things flow and see where it takes us. I have 2 kids (50/50 shared custody)  and I still have a good relationship with their mother and her boyfriend. If that makes you uncomfortable, we won't be a good fit.

I Like to spend my free time staying active (badminton, archery, cycling), hosting friend and I am a good cook. 

A bookworm when time allows, tabletop, video games, cuddling in front of Netflix or a night out dancing are all good ways to have a good time.

And I just picked up wood working so looking forward to that journey.

I don't particularly enjoy endless chats and text messages and absolutely prefer meeting in real life.

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Kink compatibility is obviously important, but I don't have many hard limits and quite open minded, so we can discuss those in details in due time, but I am definitely into :

• Impact play.
• Forced orgasms and Orgasm Denial
• Bondage (i quite enjoy wrapping, all the way up to mummification)
• Humiliation (private or public)

• Sexual Objectification (Had a chance to dabble in training a cum slut for a bit, and I really enjoyed it).   

• I am very interested in protocol / Master & Slave dynamic as well, but I have yet to indulge in that Kink.

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In a perfect world, You are: 

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• A bit of a geek (or at least like geeks), 
• Goals oriented
• Likes good food & good company, 
• Enjoying life outside and inside the house. 
• I'm not strict on the age range scale, but if you are younger, maturity is important. 
• You identify with Classy/Princess by day & sub/slut by night
• Monogamous if you want long term. Poly can work based on your current dynamics for medium term. 
• You enjoy having your limits challenged/pushed

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If all of this seems interesting to you, you know where to reach me ;)