I'm a submissive woman looking for a Dom for an LTR. Open to either monogamy or non-monogamy, but seeking a primary partner.

In my vanilla life, I enjoy tabletop RGPs/LARPs, board games, and most fantasy books/shows. Not so much into video game nerdery or science fiction, though that's not a hard and fast rule. I also enjoy partner dancing (mostly Blues), baking, and traveling (though I haven't done that much of it). And in those memes about "that one person who makes everything sexual" ? That's me! (Speaking of memes, I often joke that they are my love language... it's actually touch, though.) I'm loud, I'm lewd, and I'm not afraid to speak my mind. Feminist and ally.

Aesthetically, I'm tall, brunette, and curvy. I'm not looking for any particular "look" - I'm more interested in your mind. Looking for a "nice Dom" - I'm not into degradation; I want to feel loved. At the same time, don't be afraid to be mean. I want to both terrified of and smitten with you at the same time. Particularly interested in humiliation (yes, there is a difference), mental bondage, and orgasm control/denial. I also consider myself to be a bit of a service sub.

It would be nice if you make an effort in your initial message. Reading things like "hi I'm interested" and/or "I'm [name] and we have a lot in common, tell me more about you" are a big turn-off.

Please be 30 , local to NYC, and looking for an LTR. I'm not interested in FWB or booty calls.