I offer an introduction into a bdsm, D/s dynamic. Best suited for those who might be new, or curious, or have only a few minutes each day. Maybe you are in a long-term relationship, or just looking for a safe, online environment to explore their feelings. I've been doing this for 10 years now, so have a solid understanding of how to approach, and guide, the training, turmoil of feelings, and situations that occur within the dynamic .

For me, it's important that we get to know each other. This is an intimate dynamic, where we share intimate thoughts and feelings. I'm not looking for a one-time, jump straight in deal. Taking time to make that connection is very important. From there, my online submissive is given tasks to complete each week. Typically this means one a day, as I want you to feel that sense of being controlled and owned. I like to start slow with writing & discussion tasks, but orgasm control, edging, hole training, being told what to wear, and submissive acts captured on image, audio or video are all part of what I'd expect my submissive to work towards eventually. The focus is on control, dominance and submission. Explicit consent is, of course, required for everything that we do.

From me, you receive unwavering support, encouragement, and attention. Of course this will focus on the dynamic, but it certainly isn't restricted to it. I want to hear about your day. Tell me about your crappy day at work. Let's talk about whether you should take night classes to finish your degree. Encouragement to go work out? I'm there. That's what this about. Shared enjoyment, fun, and support.

A little about me. I'm 28, from New Zealand (still have the accent), but currently living in the US for work. Educated. Strong career in the education industry. 6' foot (182 cm), 160 pounds, fit, blue eyes. I have a 13 year old Finnish Spitz who keeps me active, needing at least an hour walk every day. I love to travel and have been to a bunch of different countries. I love games of all kinds, from poker, to spades, to hearthstone.

If you're interested, message me with your first name, age and what you’re looking to get out of this. Let's start the conversation and go from there.