I'm a male sub looking for dominant playmates for soft D/s games. I live in Belgium (Europe, French speaking), 52 years old and still in a decent shape (1m73, 68kg; 5.67 ft, 149 lb). I'm married and I have a very traditional family life style.

I envision periodic but not frequent session, e.g. once a month, perhaps twice. Ideally, we would agree on the date and time. So you need to be patient. The reason for which I want to limit and control the frequency, is because I can become very addicted to those games. As I have a lot of other interests, I try not to spend too much time in front of my computer, and not to keep my brain too busy with those fantasies.

I would prefer someone older than 30 years old. Someone around my age would be perfect.

I have absolutely NO interest in findom. If that is what you do, do not waste your time contacting me.

So what am I looking for? I am essentially looking for virtual sessions.. I am into classical D/s games, but I particularly like teasing and denial, orgasm control, nipple play (VERY important to include this), clothespins, light CBT,... I like to be guided, instructed and having to answer embarrassing questions. I am very interested in sissy things, although I do not have any toys or outfit. I am NOT into impact play.

I like to be instructed to look at certain porn videos and having to comment on them, or having to explain how I position myself towards what I see. You should see this as a way to exert your control on me -- The control aspect is very important for me, and it works greatly when using teasing and denial games. If you take pleasure in controlling someone's sexual life, then I am yours. You should also like to use babecock and eding tools, such as : http://crazy-xxx.github.io/mt/mt.html or fapinstructor.com. I fantasy on bi-forced scenes, feminization, etc. but this is just it: a fantasy in my head.

If you are interested, or would like to chat and test me, you can contact me through Reddit or through kik (tbantamus). Pictures of me: https://imgur.com/a/UAa6naU